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How do I get a guy to notice me?

How to get this guy who I totally like to notice that I exist and notice my personality/interests?

  • How can I get the guy I like who is popular (which I am really not) and his class president + is hanging w/ other guy-friends 24/7 to notice my existance (w/o playing games/being immodest) and who I am (basically not just that I exist, but my interests/personality, if he likes me I want him to like me for who I am). I also want him to notice my best (MODEST) physical features... but I don't know which ones he prefers and I don't wanna be WAY obvious that I like him cause I don't wanna go to overboard and be like an annoying girl who comes up to him all the time dressed-up being flirtatious. (He is president of freshmen class, I am very unpopular sophomore. Me + this guy share some similiar interests and in same drama club but we cannot talk much in that club because of the other actors on stage and if he is talking, it always to others.) We are teens.

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    start talking to him, start with a "hey" or "hi" my name is ____ whats ur? and start talking to him more get closer and maybe he will start liking you

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simple, talk to him.

rands

Find him on the internet and strike up a conversation. Ask him about his thoughts on some of the things related to the drama club. Ask him to help you with something related to the drama club. I could come up with a plethora of ideas for ya...lol. Don't worry about which features he prefers, decide what your best features are and work what you got. Refrain from changing your wardrobe up too much, and do it all one piece at a time resulting in your appearance being something *you* are happy with. You need to be yourself, if you start pretending you're something you're not then none of it will be worth it. Stop letting your inhibitions and fear of rejection keep you from talking to him. Convince yourself that he is like anyone else in the drama club...someone you can approach because you share an interest. Don't go out of your way to be flirtatious...just talk to him like a normal person. If you compliment something related to the drama club, it will not out your crush. Just be real with him. You're not going to be asking him to marry you, you're just going to be chatting with him. I am guessing that you have a lot of insecurities and self-doubt as is and that perhaps that is the reason why you are "unpopular," that can all be changed, hun. Don't waste those high school years fretting about what's wrong with you, live them. There's nothing a little positive thinking won't change. Need more advice on dealing with high school insanity? I am a message away. ;-p Good luck!

st1gma

It sounds very cliche but just be yourself.Be friendly, and try to talk him.If you don't notice interest to keep the friendship, then move on. Try to look nice, and be who you are.You aren't cookie, you're not supposed to be liked by everyone.That's my motto :-). If that guy can't appreciate you, then he's not worth your time. Best of luck to you!

Marla

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