How do I email others on this site?

If for some reason, (any, really) someone would want to influence others off this site how would it be done?

• UNDERHANDEDLY??? I ask this question because I received an email a week ago from someone who quit the site having suspected that she had evidence of a couple of her own contacts trying to undermine her, by using more subtle that blatant methods to discourage her to stay on. (she did not know why..although it had truly hurt her!) I am not asking this question so as to deal through such odious covert behaviour..however, if you would know how to heckle someone, impressionable and vulnerable and easily hurt, what methods of cowardly, anonymous tactics would be employed? This person, as she described her confusion and hurt was teeter-tottering between leaving and staying..but since I have NOT heard from her again, I suppose she was "influenced" to quit. Now, why would anyone want to do another such hidden malice? What could possibly be the "victor's" gain? Anyone - with any knowledge as to this rather vicious, covert psychological approach, would like to ascertain? By the way, this is BY FAR, the first time I have heard of victims of such discouraging influence! Thank you. It is simply a strong curiosity of mine WHAT reason(S) would anyone have to want the site to be vacated of certain others, who are doing NO harm. For what reasons are they a threat to certain others? Any ideas, out there??? (By all means answer honestly..it is an open forum of opinion, supposedly..is it not?)

• Answer:

  G, I have given your question much thought and have tried to come up with a logical explanation but unfortunately I cannot. I try to believe there is an underlying emotional problem that these type of people suffer from and could find help for but honestly.G, I think there are people out there who just like to be mean.That like to just play with others emotions for nothing more than the he^^ of it.Which makes this world seem even more sad and dark. I myself have tried to be a friend,offer up my sincerness and offer advice from my heart,thinking I was flying unnoticed under the radar and have received several very ugly emails,and even what appeared to be 2 people trying to intimidate me sexually(by inappropriate things they say).I have quit the sight hundreds of times in my mind but cont to return because it has brought a lot of wonderful friends to my life as well and to me that far out weights the trolls and their pathetic little lives.So in short I think we have to remember there are people who just like to spread destruction and we just have to overcome and not let them beat us down.We have to prove to ourself we are better than that and we are STRONGER than that too!