Where do broken hearts go ?
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will it ever mend ? .. my heart got bruised and beaten and broken so many times and it lead to depression, anger and so many sleepless nights :( i tired so many times to let go of things instead of keeping them inside but that is so difficult. I tried therapy too and that didn't work either cuz all they do is ask the same stupid questions. the thing is, I don't know what is wrong, ppl say that i am making myself ill and that i have no reason to be depressed. But recently I've been getting more and more depressed, i'm not doing well in school, i keep pushing my friends away, i've been having anger issues etc.. it is just too much for me to handle and i've had many ppl telling me that I've seen nothing yet but the thing is ... if my life is going to be like this then what if i don't want to live ?!
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Answer:
Hey..!! cmon..cheer up..thats not the end of urlife... u really gotta boost up..Keep ur self busy with some thing...Some thingthat makes u feel good...I had a breakup..It hurt Worst...But im fine now...It hurt me for many months...Later I jus made up my mind...I know its also hard to make up ur mind ..but u have to do it... Do Drawing , Sketching , Play some Sport , Games , etc...Which makes u feel good...i certainly will help u ..n u gonna be Normal some day 4 Sure...That day u will Feel that Life is the best Gift God can give to any one... Trust me...N live in present . Forget ur Past ... N target ur future... U gonna Rule.... Keep Smiling..!!!
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don't kill yourself, if someone hurt you, beat em up, or trick them into making every one hate them, by telling everyone lies about em.
Free2Pee
the 4th paraghraph dont think about that i am depressed u just need time do things u used to love o d dont be in a relationip take each day by day focuse on the important things thereis no recovery land
hippie
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noтн!ngнeяe
Your broken heart still stays the same unless you do something about it. I'm sorry that you've dealt with so much grief in your life and that therapy doesn't work, but you just can't give up. And people are right, you haven't seen life yet for what it really is. Think about other people in the world who are dealing with worse things than you are. Just keep trying to live life and find something that will help you. I recommend a book that may truly help you someday. It's helped me a lot. It's called The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. It's done miracles for many people. Check it out, and good luck. VIVA LA RAZA!
mexicanboy18
i wud say that its SELFCONCIOUNESS... some wud sat that u r SENSITIVE and i agree coz normally sensitive people are too much self concious and they think and think of 1 thing and dont let it go.... try to learn sumthing POSITIVE from such experince and then let it go and move on... sont think too much and isolate urself from others coz of a tragedy.... coz if u do that u will be miserable....
abbas_knight
Trust me, when you come out of this, you're gonna come out better than you've ever been. 1. Go outside. Step away from your computer and go outside right now. Right now. Where ever you live, walk around and find something beautiful out there. Admire it, and know that you are just as beautiful. And it's easy to see, once you shake off all the **** you've been dealt. 2. Now you just need to figure out how you're going to shake everything off. You'll be surprised at how much lighter you'll feel once you relieve yourself of the past. And remember, those bruises on your heart are from the past, and you're not there anymore. You are on to bigger and better things. So what are you going to do? Take up a hobby, do something random, impulsive. Do something. Pick what you are going to do right now. Right now. Think right now. 3. Where are your friends? They are here, they've always been here. Go back to them, hang out with them, start saying yes to their offers. Start saying yes to life again, in general. When opportunities present themselves, go for it. Don't think. Just do it. Do it. 4. Get back into the game at school. It'll improve your self esteem, because we both know you are better than those grades you've been getting. Do better. Do it. Just do it. Just live. Just Live.
helpizzneeded
if u choose to end ur life its only going 2be ur loss every1 has to die anyway so y bother killin urself do sumthing constructive n stop feeling sorry for urself if u learn to look around u'll find pple in the worst possible conditions who have nothing/no1 to liv 4 they could end their lives too but they chose to be strong n no matter how crappy ur life may seem somehow u r going to find a brighter side of it instead of whining , break out of ur shell try 2find out why we've been given a life im sure its not fr u to waste it away (n believe it or not this is easier Done than Said)
oblivious_obsession
whoaaa, i thought it was me talking ^_~ lol, no really tho... ...broken hearts. ouch. yah, they dont go anywhere. they stay inside of you, BUT they can be sewn back together! :) its not easy tho... so yah, ill just kinda talk to u from my own experience, ive talked to therepists, counselors, mental peoples..o_O nd TONS of others. YOU ARE NOT CAUSING YOUR OWN DEPRESSION! dont let anyone try to tell you that! its a LIE! >_< depression is caused by hurts and cuts deep inside, but they have to be found out... and that my dear is the hardest thing. do you journal? do you write? that can help get out some emotions and actually, your journal can be your BEST friend...or so ive found. sometimes its uncomfortable or not even useful to talk to others about your problems... ...things will not always be this way, it is said that the teenage years are the worst. are you on any pills to deal with your depression? that might be an idea... sorry i couldnt help more, i feel for you tho dear.. *hugs*
iAmUnderOath
Hi, if i where you truly speaking , you need not to be so hard on your self and live day by day. Enjoy life for what is life, Life is short and you are cheating yourself. You seem to be a very caring person who ever and what ever is making you look at life in a sad manner , what you need to do is just walk away from these things or people and keep them in prayer. thats all you can do. Smile you deserve lots and lots will come to you. many blessings your friend.
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