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Why am I so shy around pretty girls?

Why am i shy around loud girls?

  • Okay so i am pretty cool and confident when it comes to talking to girls but lately i have been getting shy around loud girls and why is that? I have always been cool talking to shy and outgoing girls but its the really loud ones who talk outloud in class that i am having trouble with why??

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    Not even I like talking to the loud ones. Usually, my friends and I associate loud people as spot light grabbers. The slang term is: Fakes. They only want attention, meaning they probably aren't really interested in getting to know you so much as they are interested in just having all the attention. Its not a bad thing.. its just most people really want to get to know the Real person and not a person who wants to be famous or glamorous etc.. Hard to explain without sounding like I'm stereotyping but its the best i can do. Again, nothing wrong with loud people... we usually just notice how they aren't really into getting to know the real you. So we steer clear from them. Maybe your mind is telling yourself that you want to get to know people who are more real and down to earth.

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Maybe its just that you see how much attention they get in class for being loud and don't want that attention even if you want to talk to them, and have the confidence to do so..if that mkes sense. so pretty much its like you know that by talking to them their loudness will also draw attention to you and thats not something you want. lol its hard to explain and maybe completely wrong but thats my only guess

MeLiSsA

Without a lot of information to go on I would say that either you are perceiving the girls as being obnoxious or that they appear to be more confident than you and that intimidates you.

Jason

Maybe because when they're loud and the attention is on them you choke up because everyone will notice.. try talkin to the bxtch in the hallway :)

Kay E

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