Do you think there is an environmental crisis?

What do men feel/think (in their mind) during mid life crisis?

• I'm Male, just turned 34 and have a worderful wife (who is 2 months pregnant) and a creative 4 year old son. I don't know if what i'm feeling is what is called "mid life crisis". What I think or always on my mind is "what will happen after death?". I think that i'll see the world fold up (like the small pixels folding up) then I'm worried of what will happen next after darkness (when i close my eyes). I'm a cristian and accepted Jesus and always pray to Him that He's would show me His face first or quickly see heaven. This pressure (or worry) is giving me a heart burn (heavy heart). I just don't know if this is what men with mid life crisis feel or think.

• Answer:

  It sounds like some of the things you are thinking are not typical of mid life crisis, though I guess a mid life crisis is really what you interpret it to be. Most men generally examine the rest of their life...they're getting older and may not be where they wanted to be in life, etc. You seem to be grappling more with deah issues, which if you are Christian I suggest you go to your pastor (or someone else in the church) and talk to them about your feelings. They can talk to you about when Jesus comes and many other things that I think might help you lift the weight on your heart. Good luck and God Bless!