Japan is treating sex as mostly entertainment (or getting there), is this ok?
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I hear from many japanese ppl that it is normal for high schoolers to have sex before they turn 17. I've heard of cases where it was considered unusual but also sorta normal that girls have sex when they are 14, 15. Even in middle school. I've even heard of teacher-student relationships, and students doing it for the grade. I have a japanese gf, actually, I've had 5 already. All of them are pretty much the most sex crazed girls I've ever been with. They seem super conservative on they outside, and the crazy thing is, they lie about their sex lives until u become very close to them. When private, they are open to all kinds of sexual things that is very uncommon in the states, and we do it at least 2-3 times every week. Most of them told me they had sex before 16 and that 17 is the most common time to have sex. Some of them had sex with older men in "love-hotels" as old as 39 when they were only 17 or 18. And many of them already had multiple partners before me. I am wondering if its possible the sex surveys are wrong. Since, in the Japanese culture, it is considered "honest" to "lie" about shameful things, could they have lied about the average age of sex? I mean, look at all the porn mags, sex toys, hentai manga that are available even to japanese children (if the children look for it). Look at how sick they treated Korean, and Taiwanese as sex slaves and the Chinese during the rape of Nanking? And look at the child sex tourism in Thailand, the majority of the customers are japanese. I do not believe they are the most sex starved country, rather, they are the most sex crazed country except they lie about truth due to cultural upbringing. Living and being with so many japanese ppl, including my gf and previous gfs; as well as, having 3 years of living experience in Japan, I can honestly say and not lie like the japanese that they are the most sex crazed country in the world--so sex crazed that even as an atheist, I think there's got to be some morals in Japan. Please give me comments. What do u think?
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Ironically enough, crime is rather low, including, surprisingly, rape. My guess is it's because they were raised with certain morals, such as to value honor. Just as you said that it's honest to lie about shameful things, they probably value their honor. And no honorable person is gonna go out and rape someone. That's my theory anyway, I don't think things have changed that much since World War II. They still value honor I bet. But regardless of the culture, it seems they've been doing a good job raising people considering the low crime rate.
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First of all, I think you're being rather generalizing here, as I am sure that not "all" Japanese women are sex-crazed, but here's my answer: Maybe they're not sex-crazed but progressive. In a first-world country with excellent health care and abundant birth control availability, it would stand to reason that sex should be thought of as recreational, with little meaning attached. Read Brave New World- the people in that progressive society had sex with everybody, no actual relationships, and used their "Malthusian belts" full of birth control to protect them against ever having children. Good stuff!
fizzygurrl1980
Sadly, I think your right. But its starting to be like that here too. I'm hearing of 7th and 8th graders, 12 and 13 years old having sex too. Hopefully the next generation will calm the world down.
Rachel
This is news to me. I have seen shows on TV documenting how many men have been unfaithful to their wives in Japan by frequenting places where "hostesses" are more than that. I am going to put forth a theory that you will find that Suzuki music students will be less involved in that sort of behavior. Not sure how to prove it, but I'm hopeful.
Cookie777
I still would teach my kids not to do sex until marriage.. I do not understand the world HONEST TO LIE SHAMEFUL THINGS why wouldn't they stop doing the shameful things so that they have nothing to hide? Is that mean what we see is not the real COLOR?? Are they wearing a mask?? Trying to look pure in public but a demon in private?? I really thought they are a conservative country in reality..
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