Why some people (usually women) don't share their useful methods, skills or tips with others?
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There are many people who keep unnecessary secret about their art, skills or about the method of any achievement they got. But what it takes from them if they share it with people, they deliberately do it & manipulate others when they are ask. Why do they do that? I agree that an artist has a right to keep his/her art secret, so I won't blame such artists. But there are people who don't even share tips or skills that can be useful for others & they don't even have strong reason to hide it, they just do it out of jealousy of just to maintain their self-importance, this is what I guess, you give your opinions as to why such people do this and what do u think about it. I can tell you some examples. I have a cousin who reduced so much weight, when I saw her, I asked her how she did that as I was too struggling with weight problem, but she hide it intentionally, won't tell me, she lie that she did it just by climbing stairs. I know shes lying & I came to know thru sources tht she had special diet and took some drugs. other example - my own sister, if she knows some recipie she will invite me to taste, but when I ask what is reicpie, she tries to turn the topic or misguide me about its real recipe. Not only this, she didn't even told me simple tip as to how to put phone on call waiting. She do it deliberately. In my office, I noticed my colleague whos also my friend having colorful gmail, when I saw that, I asked her, hey, my theme is simple white & blue, but your page appear attractive, what did u do, is there any settings. Now this cunning girl won't even share this simple tip, what it takes from her if she tells others abt it, she kept all colleagues in office wandering as to how her gmail page is attractive, she lied and fooled everyone that special computer is given to her by our head so in her comp, this facility is there in her system only, then she changed & said, actually the IT person of company had did this settings, but once I caught her changing settings and thats how I came to know. Problem then happens when this type of useless secretive games and useless little politics is played by friends, cousins, neighbours, family, etc. It hurts Forgot to mention, some women even keep secret abt their dresses & make-up too. If they're asked from whr they got such wonderful dress, or where do u get your haircut then they won't tell truth. Why they do this, maybe they have tactic understanding that what I have special if I share it to others then what will be special about me. They love to keep people around them wondering about them. This is ridiculous. Usually this behavior is common in women, while some men might do that too. When I was in school, one girl was dancing great, she bychance told that she is going to some dance class, so me and other girls asked her which dance class in the area she go and who teach her such steps, she bluntly told, why should I tell you?
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Answer:
1' One word reply is "Human nature" which generally is selfish. and wish to hide what they knew. 2. A very few people are of this type and rest others give ideas more than that they know. They also convey the ideas had from others, though not practiced.
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I see you know very few people
Jesere
"Hurts"? If you don't want to be "hurt" then stop colluding with the aggressors. Sounds to me as though you are focusing on stuff you don't like rather than paying attention to the stuff that seems to serve you better. A positive attitude can help a person achieve a happier life.
Femdyk
They take from society but don' give ideas back. It's very annoying...
Edwardio
I do not fully agree with you.Some people have reservation ­ because of their complex.This people could be plain if you are frank &free with their skill or knowledge.Yet others will share their secret of success or gain if you praise their achievement.Generally people will not keep anything in secret.
Anantha
Did it ever occur to you they just don't like you and so don't want to help you?
Raatz
bcuz we are ladies and that is most female's attitudes. and urmmmmm well thats like it really.
lost_in_my_life
They might not being helped in proper way, to show their true color, and their family back ground. I mean if dancer from dancing background, they will dance any way, but if a dancer from different back ground, they may feel shy, but there should be proper logical reason for them to not coming up, more or less, its a person who decieds wether they should come up or not, but education, parent inffulance, soceity, and friendship back ground, past history (may be disppointed), it matters really lot. The real strenght is coming from inside rather from views and guideliness, the person should be strong enough to face the thing, rather going back.
Anoop D
I think, May be , Most of the Humans Likes to Keep the Others Wondering. But, You Give Me Some Interesting Characters to Wondering, Today. It makes Me Hilarious. But, I think, It is the Ignorance of the Human Nature, Relying on the Illusion World.(Poali Mayakkam)
Pushpa Selvam
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