Can being a notary without passing the Bar Exam get a decent paying job?

Who can put me on the right path?

• I dug a deep hole for myself, and if theres a rock bottom I either hit it or just about there. The story of how I got where I'm at today started my second year of college. I started a third shift job, and my grades started to decline. I would drop, and re-add classes for the next two semester in tell they had enough. My financial aid got cut, plus I owe the school money for two classes, which sums up mistake one. Meanwhile my credit card debt began to rise, I decided to cave into the pressure, and stop paying them. Then with some help I started to do settlement offer, with the exception of one company who didn't want too. I made a payment plan with that company, in tell it was broken after I went on emergency leave from work for 3 months because my fiancee was diagnose with cancer that year, and unfortunately died 6 month later. When all this was going on I missed the court date, which lead the credit card company to garnish my wages, which leads to mistake number 2. I was going through a rough time with the passing of my fiancee last year, so to ignore the pain I would go out. and drink at clubs. On new years this year my buddy had too much too drink, and hit on another man girlfriend, which turned into a bar fight. I ended up getting hit in the face with a bottle that knock out two of my teeth. The dentist bill was extremely high, and to get permanent ones its going cost even more which ends mistake number 3. So at the moment I'm stuck, and currently student loans monthly bills are piling up, so I need go back to school as soon as possible. What is your best advice to get me on the right path?

• Answer:

  Sorry to hear about your girlfriend .... and the rough time you have had. No one can actually put you on the right path... you'll have to do the walking yourself but... maybe set your priorities right? Plan everything in a way so that you're able to pay your debt and move on in life? I know this is advice easy to give and really hard to live... but that's the only way I can think of... One step at a time and you'll be fine. I know how pressurizing this can be and at this moment you would want to turn towards addiction of any sort but I think you should say to yourself that you really cannot afford it right now (That's what I do) You cannot afford to become an alcoholic and fall ill because of that... you have to take care of yourself. Try meditating on some good thoughts, memories, etc... it helps release negative energy and tension. Wish you all the best...