I'm a 14 year old male and my 14 year old male best friend is having sex...?

That is completly normal. Have sex when it feels right for you, not when he is doing it!

How would you feel if you had sex with a girl and then she announced she was pregnant? Hey daddy, you'll be paying maintenance on this kid for life, through college if you want an education, trying to save up for a wedding one day but still paying maintenance.... You get the idea? You should be doing sports and enjoying this time when you do not have the responsibility of a mortgage, children to look after and all that. You are probably the most packed with hormones you will ever be in your life and that means, if you let yourself go, you will probably do silly things. Like your friend! Also, girls who are up for sex at 14 are not exactly classy, are they? I think you should aim higher.

No its ok, he just had it happen first. It will happen to you very soon, so don't worry. I am a 15 year old girl and I still haven't had sex neither, i feel left out also but I am glad to wait for a man that loves me and wants to be with me for who I am. I am not in a rush to lose my virginity to a person I am going to date for a month.

No, its not a bad thing. Just because you haven't had sex yet doesn't mean you should feel left out. Besides, the "good" girls at your age wouldn't like someone like him. He seems kind of like a man-whore.

yuck! what self respecting 14 old girl has sex at the movies? you are perfectly fine there's noting wrong with you, your friends are kinda fast. i knew a girl who had sex at 13, she got prego and then again at 15. she's now like 22 with 3 kids by 2 diff daddies. i gave up my virginity at 22. i''ve been with 6 guys and one is my now husband. take your time. you don;t have to ait as long as i did, but you want to hang out and chill with your friends not worry about child support.

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No, it's not bad at all. You shouldn't be having sex until you've found a girl who is worth your time. Don't fall into the trap that all other men do when they have it once and then all of a sudden all they think about is their penis and how to make it feel good. Sure, it feels good, but your life shouldn't revolve around it. One of my best friends is seventeen and still a virgin because (and this is coming from him) he wants to lose his virginity to a girl he respects and loves, not just to have a good time. The more you sleep around, the more a respectable woman will be turned off by you. Sex is called making love for a reason. Don't have sex just to fit in, do it when you find a nice girl that you love and care for. Btw, use a condom. Had to say it, haha.

just wait to your 16 then you know atleast what to do. he probably didnt have a clue and having sex in the cinemas shows what class the girl is if you want to have sex then have sex with another virgin preferably in a bed atleast. sex is over rated. people are still virgins in their 40s and some havent even had a kiss yet. if you do want a chick then you should definately stay away from the loud girls and stay with the cute girls as they are mostly likely to be virgins.

OK, let's get some perspective. First, he told you he had sex with these girls but you have no real evidence that this happened and he may be no more than bragging. You are too young to be having sex with anyone but yourself. It is something that you do later in life. So, for now, don't let it worry you and take into account that all you hear may not be so. Finally, I can assure you that at 14 neither person knew what they were doing and both were probably miserable and scared. You will grow into it. Promise,