How to become more confident? How to find your true self?

I want to become more confident because at times I feel painfully shy, how to improve my self esteem. Sometimes I really dont like my self. And I am a bit lost ,like I dont know what style to follow, what music should I listen, how should I react to things,what should I do in certain citations, and afterwards I feel kind of depressed. How do you truely find your self.Any body want to share.
Answer:

You need to have some you time..... listen to the radio by yourself and decide what music makes you feel better, the style you gotta chose the one that makes you fell better to.. go to the mall by yourself try some diferent clothes and decide what makes you look better. and take it from there with all the doubts that you have

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The ONLY way to truely find your self is to NOT follow trends and friends interests just to fit in. Stay alone for a while and meditate on what you want, then it will be revealed. However, accomplishing these dreams is another ball game. Good Luck.

tiger_skratch

Practice conversations in your own room and try to relax when with people.Good luck.

Firefly

Stop worrying and be yourself! =D! Do what you want to do not what you think you should.

LysergicBliss

be diffrent from others n feel proud to be an individual.find out wat u like n wat u dun like.most importantly...discover wats the purpose of yr life n work towards it.

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