How fast can I learn to drive?

I can't learn how to drive for some reason. Whats wrong with me?

• I am 20 years old and I still can't drive. I've been trying for years to learn but I still can't get it. Its effecting every part of my life I can't ao anything because I can't drive. I live in an area with very limited bus service. The nearest bus stop is about a 20 minute walk from my home and only comes once an hour. I half to get up at 4 in the morning because It takes me about 2 and a half hours to get to the community college on the bus. I never get out of the house because its too hard to get anywhere and I had to quit my job because it was taking me hours to get there and the bus was always breaking down or running late making me late all the time.I'm so depressed. I took my driver's ed class back in high school but I kept failing the written test. By the time I finally passed it I was already 18 almost 19 and out of high school. Then came the actual learning how to drive the car. I was so bad I didn't even know what side of the road I was supposed to drive on and could only be in the parking lot for the first year I had my permit. I had a driving instructor and I went through the whole program yet I still couldn't get it. I tried to pass the test at the DMV in vain but I failed and my first permit expired. I got my second permit and am trying trying trying again but I still suck. I don't understand why driving seems to be so easy for everyone else and so nearly impossible for me. I see little 15 and 16 year old kids driving around with their licenses including my little brother no problem yet me a 20 year old can't do it. Whats wrong with me?? Is it possible that I have some kind of disability that is preventing me from learning how to do this? What can I do to learn? This is effecting my self esteem and every part of my life. I just want to be able to go out and have fun like everyone else.

• Answer:

  Dear Anonymous, I am actually learning to drive and at first i was exactly like you but I decided that spending loads of money while i could drive ok was a big problem for me.The process of learning to drive requires 100% commitment and focus. I don't know you but I can only assume you have issues that are preventing you from properly learn . I don't think there's something wrong with you but persevere and you will get some results. Everybody is different for all situation but concentrate on clearing that hurdle which gets ion your progress. if needs be talk to people to make you feel better Don't spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars down the drain and devise a strategy for the other problems in your life as where there's a problem there's always a solution to the problem. Take care