2day my grandpa died, i wonder y i can't stop crying if your grandpa died how did u stop crying?

WELL HONESTLY I STILL CRY AND MY GRANDADDY DIED YEARS AGO,,,THOUGH I THINK ABOUT HIM EVERYDAY,I FELT LIKE NOBODY LOVED THEIR GRANDADDY AS MUCH AS I LOVED MINE I WAS WHAT THEY CALL A GRANDADDY'S GIRL I SPENT ALOT OF TIME WITH HIM ACTUALLY HE AND MY GRANDMA RAISED ME AND MY BROTHERS BECAUSE MY MOM WORKED ALOT,,,BUT ALOT OF THE TIME I FIND MYSELF CRYING JUST THINKING ABOUT ALL THE SWEET THINGS THAT HE HAD DONE FOR ME BUT IN THEE END I FELT BETTER BECAUSE HE DIDN'T HAVE TO SUFFER ANYMORE

I know how you feel except my grandma was the one that died not my grandpa.It took a whole month for me to stop crying.I finally thought about all the stuff that make me happy and feel good.Like my parents or friends.I still cry today when other people mention my grandma.She died in her sleep.I feel so sorry for you.

i remember the time i got the news my granddad died... i was in sch... my uncle called me n said my granddad died. u know wat my 1st question to him was? 'r u kiddin?' i kicked myself for askin tt cuz at tt moment, i cldn't believe it n was shocked... somehow, i didnt expect myself to ask tt... he was my paternal granddad... tho i didnt see him much, i burst out cryin over the phone... n the thing was, my dad was overseas for a conference... it jus killed me as to how he wld take it... but my uncle said tt they cld not get my dad on the phone yet... worse bit was, my granddad was in a hospice of sort... was sickenin... wen i went to c him, i burst out cryin agn cuz tt was not how i remembered my granddad,.... he was so shriveled... was not at all how i last saw him... i felt so sick to my stomach tt i had not gone n seen him... i guess part of me knew tt i wld cry seein my granddad like tt cuz my dad used to tell me how his health was failin... its not tt i didnt wanna see him... it was jus tt i didnt wanna cry upon seein him like tt... n then, seein him like tt, was jus heartbreaking... till now, wen eva i think abt it, i still tear up.. even now, while typin this, there r tears in my eyes... i guess the sorrow will nvr really leave us... its sort of like this shadow tt nvr goes away... alwaya lingering there... da bit where v slowly go on w/ our lives in the most important... tt entire wk, i was jus so lost... during the funeral n aftr the funeral, i was fallin apart... i had no idea wat to do... as long as v remember them as how they were, guess the pain isn't so bad aftr... but i still will not 4get how he looked the last time i saw him... i can't... its like, tt image is stuck in my mind... i'm sori to hear abt ur granddad... i dun suppose wat i've typed here wld help... but its jus to let u know tt ur not alone in this... tt's all.. :'(

I am very sorry for your loss. My Grandad died a year ago, he was like a Dad to me as I have not seen my Dad for over 8 years. It was and still effects me deeply. I am seeing a professional to try and help me. My advice to you is to just do whatever you are doing. You need to do the right thing by you , as this is the right thing by everyone. To try and act strong for other peoples benefit will just cause damage to you in the future, which doesn't help anyone. So just try nad do what is right for you. Crying is a stress relief for your body, so it's good to cry. Just remember that whatever you do, is ok. Its the right thing for YOU to do. Sending love and strength to you.

I had my grandpa who is really like my dad, die about a year ago. We were really close and if i am honest i cried on and off for a week. I finally realized that my grandpa was one of the greatest men that I had ever known and that he had lead one hell of a life. I was sad that i was not going to be able to see him again, but i was so greatful that i had been blessed enough to have a headful of priceless memories with him that i really could not complain too much. People die and it's sad but I still have a lot to be happy about. Pluse I know that my grandfather would be very disappointed if i stoped living becouse he was gone. What I did to feel better is i just started to think about the best times that I had with him and defore I knew it I was laughing. Focus on the man that he was, not the man that is gone and if your grandpa was like mine your sorrow will turn into pride, slowly but surely. He challenged me to be the man that i am today and i could not get him out of my head if I wanted to. Good luck to you andtake care!

I'm so sorry about your grandpa i no how you feel when you say you never got to say good bye my best friend was shot in my front door will be 13 yrs ago on April 9 at 7:30 am i never got to say good bye to her either and still to day it bothers me ,this is something that wont go away soon the crying will stop but the hurt wont ,you have to give your self time to grieve before you can help your grandma maybe the both of you can help each other through this , its hard to lose someone you love and much harder to let go just keep in mind your grandpa knew you loved him its not your fault what happened to him and its also not your fault you didn't get to say good bye , but as i said and i hope this helps you some remember your grandpa knew you loved him

I'm so sorry for your loss. My Grandaddy died 5 years ago this month. He was more like a dad, because I was the first granddaughter. You will be okay in time. It will take a while, ok? If you want to cry, cry. If you want to scream, do it. Don't hold anything back. I have a two year old daughter that my grandfather never saw, but during my pregnancy, I dreamed of baby girls almost every night. Funny thing though, almost all of the dreams took place in my grandfather's old house. So, he's there around me. Your grandfather will always be around you. I truly believe that and so should you. This is weird too, I just dreamed of him last night. They come to you. Be strong, and love your family. Take care.

March 22nd was the anniversary of my grandpa's death. it's been 14 years since he died. i have moved on but he is still in my heart. it may sound crazy but every now and then when i'm alone i talk with him. i always feel better afterwards. my grandma still misses him but she too has moved forward. but she never forgets him. just knowing that ur grandpa is there with u in spirit should help. i'm sure he would have liked to say goodbye too but sadly this was not to be. obviously ur grandpa was the love of ur granma's life and they shared a long and wonderful life together, so of course she'll be missing him deeply. grieving has no time factor to heal, but u need to move forward as that is what ur grandpa would have wanted. believe me, u'll move on but ur grandpa will be forever in ur heart. God rest his soul.

The crying is normal. My grandpa died of a stroke. I didn't get to say goodbye either. I cried for my grandpa, and I cried until I was done. The crying is part of your goodbye. Time is the only thing that helps. Just hug your grandma. You don't need to have the answers. Crying just means you love your grandparents. You will miss the one who is gone, and you are sad for the one who is here. I'm even tearing up a little right now. This is normal and healthy.