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How Can I get this really handsome man from work to notice me? He's also kinda my boss?

  • I want some advice on this situation I've been dealing with for a while now, there is this guy from my work that is the most handsome man I've ever seen, I cannot get him out of my mind, he is tall, has short brown hair, a magnificent physique and is just so sexy, but I don't know how I can get him to go out with me, I mean he's a little out of my league and I'm not like many of the women he's dated, I mean I'm not ugly but pretty average, and since he throws a party for the entire office every month, I've seen some of the women he dates and they are gorgeous so that's why this is so depressing for me, I don't know what I could do to get him to notice me, another problem is that he is a lot older than me, I'm 25 and he's 39 and also not directly but kinda one of my bosses at work, but recently I've been trying to apply for a position to be his assistant so I could see him even more and then he would be my boss. So could I just get some advice as to how I could probably get him to go out with me. From what I can tell, his interests are- Cars, golf, sailing, buying really expensive liquor (in his office he has a bottle of scotch that I read online that costs about 500 dollars a shot), he has really nice suits, I think he likes cars, he and his friends from work are always going to private clubs that I could never get into, and hee seems like a really intellectual type but without being nerdy. so what should I do, how can I get him to notice me, I really really would love to go out with him but everytime he talks to me about something work related I get really nervous and the other day he noticed my hands were shaking when he was talking to me and now he probably thinks I'm insane.

  • Answer:

    Start a fling with every guy in the office, see if he gets jealous. If anything he will realize you're easy and may want a ride.

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If this guy is as great as you say, and he has at least an ounce of a brain, he will NEVER EVER date you even if he WANTS to. The reason is that an intelligent man with self-control would not want to be sued by a disgruntled employee for harassment. At his age, hopefully he has self-control. You will probably just make yourself look like a fool for trying. I just think you need to go out more and find someone equally as attractive as this guy and one who is younger.

Jr

There's an old saying: Don't sh!t where you eat. Get the point?

WayneH

Goto his party But don't TRY to get noticed it might make you look silly . I don't think dating him is a good idea - co workers can gossip and that will tarnish image and most men do not want to jeopardize their reputation or career over some chick

jackie

Dating your boss would be amazing in many ways, but Theres always a side effect. If you guys break up say bye bye to.your friendly boss and job :) DON'T DO IT.

Darkness knows!

It's never a good idea to date your boss.

Not Even If You Paid Me

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