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How can i be more motivated?

How can I feel motivated, without force?

  • Hey everybody, how are you all? Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and have a joyful new year :D Ok. This is my question, and I'm looking for some serious answers! 1. I'm 17 years old. I go to College and I study Performing Arts. I want to be an Actress and then maybe go to Uni -- or book an agency straight after I finish college. I get told by the teachers that I'm really good at Acting. It is even proven in my grades. I always get Merits and very close to a distiction. 2. Outside College i'm more of a shy reserved girl. It sucks sometimes. I don't want to be loud, but I surely want to be louder than I am at the moment. 3. My Mom always says that I'm lazy because I'm always stuck in the house and not going out, and I need to find a job to gain my own independance (which is true)... I always tell myself that "Imust go out and just fix myself up" but it'slike there is no motivation there when it comes to it. 4. I want a nice guy to like me. Aguy that is loyal, handsome, hard working and confident. But if i'm not confident how can I meet this guy without feeling inferior. Ok i'm going to stop now because it feels like i'm asking way too much of you. Please take my question seriously and answer like you mean it. I want to feel motivated to fix myself up and just not listen to my flesh! I think I've become so use to not going out, it'sgotton the best o me. Please help. :D:D

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    Thank you :D I had a lovely xmas and i'm looking forward for the new year :D 1. CONCGRATS.. keep that up and success will be coming your way girl! 2. Most actresses say there shy and reserved..even singers. So don't worry. Just try and speak up more. Don't be too quiet because that can be very annoying. Your not a mouse so don't act like one. 3. Be determined to get up and find a job. Create lots of CVs or get some application forms. Life isn't here to waist! There are lots of places to look for part-time jobs. Being an Actress = Movement! 4. Getting a nice guy is cool. Be prepared to know who is a jerk from who is actually nice. You'll know hopeully when your man comes :D xxxxx

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it is not lack of motivation.there are two forces that keep us keep going.one is motivation,that is created by our desire or some greed.it force us to work until we dont get our goal.the 2nd one is inspiration,but it is rare thing.because once a person get inspired nothing can stop him your problem is of mindset.you will surprise to know that people who say that they are lazy basically are suffering from mental block.you should aware of fact that we all have same (almost) body configuration,then why few people work so much,and few remain in bed most of time. so change your mindset.it takes around 1 month to change our thought pattern.we need to re-write or subconscious mind.for this we need to feed postive things to our inner brain. think you can do it,all the time

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