Can anyone tell me how to get mature ? I mean i do not act as i should?
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I am 21 and still i act as a kid sometimes ...... now people realize me and really get sad ...... they say i got elder now should get mature... i can't get this term "Mature " can anyone tell me
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Answer:
To become mature means to: 1. Calm down. Restrict any improper actions or comments. 2. Control your body and facial reactions. Be aware of the expression on your face. Try to keep a calm expression. 3. Speak calmly with proper English...don't use slang. 4. Dress like an adult... 5. Be respectful and positive. Compliment people HONESTLY if you like something about them. 6. Stand/sit with good posture. 7. Listen when people speak to you. Answer yes and no, and look people in the eye without staring them down. 8. Be interested in helping people. 9. Be good in general. Don't get into crime. 10. Choose friends who have the same mature values. Mature doesn't mean "OLD"....it means ADULT. You can definitely find ways to incorporate maturity into your own self image. You can still be yourself...it just means being more considerate to everyone around you. My husband is 10 years younger than me. I met him when he was 24/ I was 34. He was so mature for his age, I didn't know he was so young. We are now 30/40, and he is still sometimes more mature than I am. Definitely more considerate.
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Other answers
IF YOU ARE A GUY, THEN 21 IS STILL YOUNG! HELL, I AM 47 AND STILL ACT IMATURE FROM TIME TO TIME :)
musicman47
Think before you talk, think how your actions will affect other people, Behave as if you are a grown man with respect and dignity. At 21 years old, you are just at the beginning of adulthood. But if you don't discipline yourself now, you will live the life of a fool.
Mdme. Mango Keeps it Real
All of "gg's' answers are fine.
Major Break Through
Well maturity is responsibility. Responsibility for your actions and the consequences they would have. Responsibility for your money and being wise in the spending of it. Responsibility for doing your studies or work even when you want to do something else. Being responsible with women. Not taking advantage of them and treating them like a lady rather than someone to be used. Maturity is not being so selfish and being more selfless. Realizing the world does not revolve around you and your immediate wants but revolves around others and their needs and desires.
Christian R
eeewww...growing up.
lucy
steps... 1.dont drink caffine 2.watch old people, grandparents, parents, try to mimmic them, your own personallity will blend in on its own.. 3.dont act so childish
mikejonez
agree with gg
~ *lily*~
Becoming mature is something that happens as you age. It varies from person to person. I suggest that you don't worry about what anyone says about you and just go about your business. Lies becomes truths only if you let them. Then again, we all have our "immature" moments throughout our lives too.
Brewspy
Nobody can teach you to be mature. That comes with time and experience. Just BE YOURSELF! The people who do not appreciate how you are and act are not the sufficiently "mature" to understand you either! So, do not get sad.
normita
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