Do I have to return a laptop that was given to me as a Christmas gift?
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Before Christmas last year I took in my nephew for my brother, who I have never really talked to much and am not very close with (personal reasons). For Christmas last year to make up for the many years he's missed, and to thank me for taking in his son in, my brother bought a new laptop for me because mine was old and was missing 2 keys. He sent it to our mom's house for our family Christmas (he wasn't able to attend himself due to a hectic work schedule) and I received it there. Anyway my nephew also has to do online school so while he has been staying with us I let him use the laptop under my supervision since if I didn't, he would have to walk to the library every day and it's the middle of winter, I didn't want him getting sick. Now, because I recently found out about a health issue that I need to take care of, I am no longer able to take care of my nephew so he has to go back to his mother's house (which is an inconvenience to her). I won't sugarcoat it, his mom didn't want him back and my brother (his dad) is not a good father, he had been absent from my nephew's life for the past 13 years (nephew is 15). He would rather put himself and his career first instead of being responsible and raising his son or paying child support. To clarify, my nephew's parents live on opposite sides of the US, and they have been divorced for about 12 years. His mother lives in the same State I do (Michigan) and she is raising my brother's other child just fine, yet she doesn't want to take my nephew back because he is a handful. This is not a very nice situation and because I can no longer take care of my nephew, my brother is demanding that I give my laptop to my nephew because he has to do school work on it. It was a gift for Christmas, so I do not feel that I should have to give it to him. My brother can honestly go out and buy a hundred more laptops if he wanted, he has a very good paying career and is very successful at what he does. He is doing this to spite me, he is vindictive and that is the only reason that he is trying to make me give up my laptop. He has changed his story and is now saying that he bought it specifically for his son, and he told my nephew that (all this time he accepted that it was NOT his and that he was ONLY permitted to do school work on it, it was NOT for his personal use). It is obviously not true that the laptop is his son's and not mine because if it was for his son then he would have addressed it to him, it would have been his to open at our family Christmas, and it would have been his to take care of this whole time. When I got it, I'm the one it was addressed to and because my brother installed a bunch of cool programs on the laptop before sending it out here, he put the administrator account in my name and he gave me the password. If it was his son's all along obviously he wouldn't have done that. So my question is, am I legally obligated to give it to my nephew just because he was using it for school while he was here? I believe I don't have to, but at the same time I don't have the receipt for it. I've had it since 12/24/11 and I registered the laptop in my name on the manufacturer's website the night I brought it home. I say it is mine and now my brother is changing his story in order to spite me, but my mom saw me open it and she knows my brother bought it for me. So I feel that my brother has no case. Can he take me to court over this? It's a $500 laptop, so for him to take me to court he would be wasting a lot more than $500 (he would have to get a plane ticket from CA to MI, then whatever court costs, etc). He can afford it but he has like 8 active warrants here in MI so I doubt he would actually come here because he'd be taking a huge risk. He told my nephew via text message that it is his for the taking and now my nephew flat out told me that he is taking it when he leaves my house to go back to his mom's. I told him the hell he is because he would be stealing my property and I would file charges against him (said it to scare him but if he really did it, I sure as hell wouldn't just let him walk out of my house with it, it's mine). My nephew now continues to insist he is taking it, and that it was his all along. It's basically my word against his so who has the legal right to the laptop? I take it in my room every night so that it doesn't get broken or stolen. My nephew, while living with his dad out in CA has gotten caught with stolen merchandise and has broken expensive items because he can't control his temper, he gets really out of control. So to keep it safe it is put away every night. This is a really complicated situation and it is causing me a lot of stress, so what can I do to prove it is mine? I have the laptop's box and messages on facebook between my brother and I where he told me to make sure I supervise my nephew on it and that he was se
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Answer:
I learned about this in my business law class. If he gave it to you as a gift, and adressed you with it, then it is legally yours. It is verbally contracted whether your brother knew it or not. Just because your nephew has used it for schoolwork, that was your choice to let him as the OWNER. You don't have to give it back. And if you have messages where he tells YOU to supervise, that proves you are the rightful owner because you have administrative power over who uses it. Most people don't know this, but a gift such as an engagement ring, it is a legal contract since it was given to you by the previous owner. He verbally granted ownership to you.
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He gave it to you for a Christmas gift. It's yours to do with what you want. Since your brother can't or won't take care of his own son, he is in no position to call the shots.
Gabi ng Lagim
To be brief-no, you do not need to return the laptop, it is yours.
Nancy
i actually read the whole thing -.- If he wants to take it to court go for it. He gave it to you so it is legally yours. And who is the judge going 2 believe. A father that is divorced, missed out 13 years of his sons life and doesn't take care of his own son till this day. A father that deals with stole merchandise? Heck you should just take this to court and show him what's up. He wouldn't even stand a chance in court. And it sounds like you nephew acts just like his father. Good luck -Vic
Vic
Based on all the drama ALREADY going on, not least of which is your medical condition- wouldn't it just be easier and less stressful for all involved to just give your nephew the laptop?? I mean, he's probably stressed out and bummed as it is- what with a mother that doesn't "want" him and a dad that doesn't appear to care very much and his aunt (you) that can't care for him anymore, having the laptop to do his studies, listen to his music, watch movies, etc., might make his life just a TINY bit more liveable....don't you think? Leave eeeeevvveeeerything else aside and think of your nephew- be the only one who does something nice for him, even if you don't really want to.
Kym Keith
My advice to you is to let the issue go. I know it's hard and all but pity the poor kid. He does need it for schoolwork and I'm sure you could survive just fine without the laptop (like you did previously). Try not to worsen the situation by bringing up law suits and all (your argument is weak because you have no evidence to prove that it is yours). Family will always be family.. They do things to annoy you sometimes and sacrifices have to be made (however reluctant you may be to do it). How does your mom feel about this? (Seeing her two grown kids fighting) You have to choose to be the adult this time and let your brother be the immature nut he is. It sucks.. but siblings will be siblings...
MaybeMe
I don't know about legally but technically if he has the bill for it he can say anything he wants so hypothetically if you went to court for such a stupid situation you'd probably have to end up giving it back but considering you have witnesses that it was indeed a christmas gift there shouldn't be an issue. Anyway at the end of the day as horrible as the story is , your brother is a douche and obviously now that you can't take care of your nephew he's pissed at you. People like him should be treated from a distance you don't want trouble like him or his nephew. Cut them out. If you really just want to get it over with, give him back the laptop, be the bigger person and make it clear that that is not something proper to do and you wont be taking gifts or offering help in future times if he's acting that low.
Rebecca
I read everything, and you have your answer. You were witnessed by your mom and your nephew on Christmas at your mom's house opening the laptop as a wrapped gift from your brother. The laptop is yours and yours alone, just because someone gets to use it for whatever reason, that does not make the laptop theirs :) It was bought as a gift and therefore your brother has no legal right to it, whether he shows proof that he bought it or not. He can't change his mind just because he is angry at you for wanting to take care of yourself! By the way from the sounds of it, your brother is a total loser deadbeat dad and I have to commend you for stepping up to raise your nephew. I can't believe there is nobody else in your family that offered to take him in, it is sad that your family isn't closer but you have a good head on your shoulders from the sounds of it. Your nephew deserves to know he is wanted and loved, even if he is a trouble maker. With enough positive support he can change, your brother on the other hand sounds like a lost cause. Don't let him stress you out, you don't have to let him get under your skin!
MBCarGirl
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