Why hasnt he been able to come talk to me like a normal person? we are 19 years old for crying out loud!?
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We were basically like best friends. We only talked for four months tho. Then we started dating. It happened naturally. It got very intense. A lot of intense make out sessions lasting hours everynight, everynight we fell asleep in eachother's arms, we could lay in bed and talk for hours etc...we were so close. It only lasted like 2 weeks til i broke up with him because he was acting like a child and keeping me a secret and could never tell me hw he really felt. When he finally did, he said offensive things to me on facebook chat. (saying we had nothing in common, he wasnt sure i was a genuine "nice" girl and that he wanted to have feelings for a genuine nice girl---he said cuz i was with him, but he didnt think i was with other people----, he was afraid i didnt accept him for who he was because i was the first girl to actually like him back like that) when I told him it was a mistake (us dating), I said this on facebook chat after he told me the offensive stuff. He was like "yea? elaborate" then i said that i really liked him, i just didnt want us both to get hurt. Then he said "ur hurt?" and he said "im alright with being friends even after this, its okay with me. I said "im not saying we cant be friends, it just feels wayyy awk"and he said" its not for me. Ive been friends with girls ive liked my entire life, its not news to me Amanda. ts only gonna be bad if you think it will be so what r u gonna do about it? im sorry its turning out this way, but if you think its gonna be bad then it will be" Then the conversation ends....thats really our last real conversation ever. then i text him a week later saying "i miss talking to you. its the same as before all thissss" and he said "i know it isnt, because i wasnt sure how i should feel before remember?" then when i would text him how he was and stuff, he would tell me but wouldnt ask about me. If i would invite him to things, he would make excuses not to. I was just trying to be nice! I was trying to put the negative stuff behind us and just be friends. HE said we could be freinds before anyway....but clearly he didnt want to be. He sleeps over my then best friend's dorm (on the floor...he didnt like her like that, but it still pissed me off) and then when he sees me at a group hangout, he doesnt acknowledge me. he leaves 3 hours early to avoid having to take the train back with me. He couldnt even stand being in the same room as me then i message him on facebook saying "we have the same friends, when is this awkwardness between us gonna stop?" he goes "idaknow" and i say "lets just forget this ever happened" then he goes "k" and thats it. the conversaton ends then a week or few days later, i text him asking him if he had mono and gave it to me. (my lymph nodes were swollen since i first kissed him) he tells me he wasnt sick in like a year and that i should go to the doctor. then i text him back insisting he gave it to me. he gets very pissed off and is like "i told you ididnt have it and i dont. now leave me alone please you didnt have to accuse me of this" he blocks me on facebook. so this whole thing is just so complicated there is still tension even tho we dont talk. i havent contacted him since early october, so thats done. i just let it be. He has said many bad things about me since then. We live across the hall 10 feet away, so thats tought. we dont run in to eachother tho, because i make sure i leave when he is not in the hall. When he sees me, he just stares at me. He also tries to flirt with my roommate and his whole personality changed since we broke up. he used to be very sweet and caring, now he is just a jerk. he is completely arrogant and obnoxious and just not the guy i used to be in love with. Also, ever since my friends started hanging with him, they dont talk to me anymore. He also got my entire floor to ignore me and not talk to me. They all just side with him and talk about me. Everyone keeps talking about "us". About the tension. They are like "them two....whoa...." I just want closure. I want us to just have a talk. Only cuz we were so close before. If there wasnt so much drama between us, I would have gotten over it LONG ago. But he kept doing all these things indirectly to me. We NEVER had a talk. The only reason we are in this state, is because I wanted us to discuss our feelings about what was happening with us. I wanted to know if he really did want "this" (which was us acting like a couple) Its SO DUMB! we were never in a relationship. Yes, we acted like we were, but we never officially were. He could never face me again. I dont know why he is acting like im his crazy ex girlfriend..... Why has he been so afraid to face me????
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blah, blah, blah, and then the important line, "I want closure." Of course you want closure. I want to be out from under thousands of dollars of crushing debt. Both of us will have to be patient and keep moving forward. How long before you can move to a new place?
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Don't know what to believe with you since your constantly changing the story. Thanks again Cassie. You're the best.
Andrewa
wow it is clear he is being VERY childish. Just do not be childish in return. pretty soon he will be the crazy person who cannot keep his your name out of his mouth. Then people will start to wonder. Just try and act like none of it phases you. If he is being a jerk let him. seems like he wants a reaction..DO NOT give it to him. Do not let any of this get to you life is too short..find new friends your other friends sound lame, siding with him but not asking for your view of the situation.
Rachel
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