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My question is A BIT long but can someone PLEASE help? 10 points for sure;)?

  • There is this guy I got to know online( he is 22 and I am 19). The problem is, well he is kinda different from other guys( or I might be wrong:D). Well usually in dating sites and stuff, guys ask for you picture after a week or so, right? But I know him less then a month(maybe 22 days), but he hasn't ask for my picture, planing to see me out, or my number yet. I know your going to say he is a 50 year old guy or a creeper your chatting, but I know myself he isn't. Well I know he is going to college or he couldn't name that stuff I asked, and I have some other more reasons .) Another problem I have is that he chats with me for a week so nice and leaves me lots of messages when I am not available, but then he gets unavailable and doesn't leave even one messages(even if I IM him or stuff he wouldn't answer) for 2 or 3 days and comes back saying like so "sorry I was busy so much these days and he would be nice and act interested again"( as the day I got to know him, he is nice with me for couple of days and then ignores me, I mean is not available for 2 day or so, then gets back.) Well I am kinda worried, the truth is I like him( the story is long but I shorten it, and only named his negative points, sure he has lots of positive points:D), he told me once what I think of him but I didn't say anything, but he said he thinks I am really cool, and likes me( he is extremely polite). Well I am shy myself, If I know he is interested in someone else I would like to leave him alone and don't bother him and myself( stop liking him), but I don't know exactly what he is thinking about this( could you please tell me how to find if he is interested in me or someone else, I am shy so I can't ask directly:D). So please what do you think I can do to find out, and what do you thin,k could he like me and have interest in me??? Please the truth you think 10 points:)

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    Aside from being setup with someone through friends or family, I'd say dating sites are as safe as any other way of meeting people. You're always going to be taking a chance with someone you don't know well. Anyway, I'd take him at his word that he just gets busy from time to time. Maybe that's just the nature of his job, or he may have other family obligations. In any case, a month is long enough for chatting. Suggest getting together for lunch, coffee, or drinks so that you can meet in person.

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First of all, dating websites aren't safe, and im sure you know that, but just be carefull okay? And Secondly just ask him, say this Hey i like you and i want to make sure your interested in me too and that im not just wasting my time. My guess is that he does like you at least a little if he's been talking to you for almost a month. Just be upfront with him.

Kyndal Reen

the dude is prob a virgin and just wants to get laid honestly. he will tell you whatever he thinks you need to hear..... If you want to see him make sure its a public place. but yeah he just wants P****Y.... and im not being funny thats all it is....

Chris

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