What should I do if I am being bullied in school?

My daughter is being bullied at school. But the school says this is not happening. What do I do?

  • My daughter has Asperger's Syndrome and gets bullied all the time at school. The school says they have a very strict anti-bullying policy but they seem say lots but do nothing. I do not want to move schools I want the school to deal with the issues. They say my daughter is not being bullied but that the other people are just playing. Well I think that this school is too scared to deal with the matter. Has anyone got any advice because it's getting harder and harder watching my daughter go through this.

  • Answer:

    Contact the authorities.

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The school isn't scared to deal with the issue, they are too lazy and stupid to deal with. If people at that school are doing something that causes someone to be upset, they should be counseled to change their behaviour. Report this matter to the school district board, contact the Parents association and raise this matter. In other countries contact the department of education.

flingebunt

You need to give the school more specific detail on what is happening to your daughter. You should ask her specifically if and when she is bullied and get her to explain the incidents as accurately as she can. Then, with this information, complain to the school. If you simply tell them she is being bullied they will not be as motivated to do something about it. If they continue to ignore the problem threaten to leave and make sure that they realize the seriousness of the situation. Do this and keep hammering them, it'll get harder and harder to ignore you. If they completely refuse to help then you need to remember that your child's safety is priority and you should switch schools. Or maybe consider home schooling and tutors. It's not worth it to put children through abuse. Especially with a problem like AS.

Ike

Sounds familiar. I'm 14, and I'm getting bullied too. For me, it feels like hell to go through it. But they say it's just for fun, not for harming my feelings etc. Now I just didn't take it anymore, and I talked with a teacher who normally is very nice. He talked to them about it and it stopped. But then it started again and now, this friday, I had History from him, and he said the same things that they did. Maybe you can talk to the Head or something? Or with the parents of the children who are bullying your daughter?

Lasse

They should fire her *** or whoever it is you talked to. That's not the type of response anyone should receive in this given situation. Talk to the head and make sure he or she keeps an eye on your daughter and the probable bullies so that he or she may catch them in the act. It would be a good idea to have your daughter keep a journal and write down the events that take place from day to day, then present it to the head of the school. Nobody would sense that your daughter would make these things up. As I just saw "Karate Kid" a few hours ago, maybe your daughter can take karate lessons? Seems like it helped the kid in the movie (joking) I'm sorry to hear that your daughter is having trouble with bullies, and I hope that this type of behavior ends soon. Good luck :)

yoyoyaya

its probably the kids just teasing her then the teachers thinking they're just "joking" or messing around. you talk to the kids your self. that should help.

Osamah

Hi My daughter just went through this and girls bully differently then boys. Girls seem to be meaner and emotionally abusive to their victim. I brought it to the V.P. attention and she said that we need to get evidence of the other girls and see if there story is the same. She called each student down separately and had them fill out a report. She then called me and told me that all three girls were being bullied by the same girl. She then brought the girl into the office and had her write out her report. She was not aware that she was just joking and didn't realize what she was doing. The V.P. had it all resolved by the end of the day. My daughter was then able to go back to school the next day and that girl did not go near my daughter at all. She is going to learn some social skills and the guidance teacher is helping her with this. I am glad that I went to the V.P. and she took action right away and came up with a solution.Maybe this will work for you. Good Luck

robin

That a serious matter that your daughter gettin bullied it can cause damage in the future. What you do is put your foot down to this school and tell them open there damn eyes. Or take her outta of a school that cares

Kanny

call on the help of chuck norris, or go down there and kick there *** yorself :P

Rob

If You're Sure She's Getting Bullied, Then Find Out Why, Why Her? Why Pick Her Out Of All The Other Kids. Speak To The School Again, This Time A Diffrent Member, Maybe Her Class Teacher Or Head Teacher...The LAST Resort Is Moving Schools!.

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