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How to ask a girl out in early high school?

How to ask a girl out in high school?

  • I really like this girl, and we're in the same class. I've talked to her only for two days. How do i ask her out? I can't just say "Hi, whats up. Wanna go out?

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    Wait, wait, wait. You've only talked to her for two days? Isn't that a little too fast? Even if you've known her for the entire school year, you still haven't really known her. Talk to her more and get to know her better, before you ask that question. Most girls don't want to be asked out by someone they don't even know, and whatever you do, do not get one of her friends to ask her for you/ask her online (like MySpace!). Back when I was in Middle School, this guy kept bothering my friends to ask me out for him, and from being a total stranger, he became this guy who kept trying to be part of my life, something I did not want. So you, my friend, don't want to suddenly jump into her life, without warnining.

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I agree that it is really soon to ask her out, but if you want then asking her out is a fine idea. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years and I barely knew her when I asked her out. Just ask her if she wants to go see a movie or get some pizza or something. Don't make it obvious that you are asking her out, she'll probably figure it out, but it will make you look suave if you don't say "do you wanna go out?" Just be confident and you can do it.

Kirby

Wow wow, calm down i dont suppose the term/semester is going to end in the next 3 days is it - no? - so slow down, whats the rush? Get to know her a bit, make sure she knows what your really like, and your not just putting on some new guy show, because if you lie now, your gonna have to live the lie for a lot of the way through the relationship, and if your right for her im pretty sure she would want to know the real you. Also get to know her more as-well, things arenty always as perfect as they seem...if its right it'll work out...

Ade

you: "i know this may be a little abrupt/fast, but are you free this weekend?*or whatever day you wanna say* Do you want to go out with me?" or you: "hey, can i ask you out? we know each other for 2 days but, i'm interested, are you free?" or the sexy pimp type you: "hey, are you taken? would you go out with me?"

Heartbreak96

uhh first ask that if she have a bf and then if she doesn't then say "do u have any thing after school " if she say no then you say can we hang out after school 4 a cup of coffee or soda whatever try to not be nerves or shy and good like and i hope that she will like you back :)

deda

Of couse u can girls love of brave guy! Just make her your friend first. I 've been matchmaking for years. come to me for advice anytime!

Tasha

Just say this "Yooooow shawty i hope yout dont mind me saying this buh..., the back of your head is ridiclous" then she goin be lyk "*giggle* ThankYou" nd Then u POcket Them Digits

ImTheBoss._ !

What ever you do...do not panic! just ask her out What i don't like is when a guy likes me but never makes a move!!! aaarge Just go ahead and do it...Be much more confident

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Watch sitcoms till you know what to do and find the right words to say

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