No I want to learn how to sing, but I'm shy?

I want to be somebody...i really want to sing. please help me.. please.. :(?

• im a girl and im 14 year old.. alot of girls in my class are very talented but its just ME who is not good in anything... i really want to be good at something and i love singing.. but my voice sounds just like a crow/man and when i listen to my friends singing, i can't take it because they sing soo beautifully..why is it just me who is not good in anything? why is it just me who is not even pretty? why can't i do what i like? WHY?!!? why am I the only unluckiest person here..??!?! ='( why do people ignore me like i don't exist?? Please will someone help me out? i DON'T want to give up what i like, i want to sing! will someone please help me? My mom is totally against singing so she don't take me to singing classes..what should i do?? i NEED to practice hard because i suck at singing..how can i learn singing..? Will someone help me please? This is my life and i wanna be someone in future.. and if my singing improves, i'll post a video of me singing with all credits to u guys <33 So, will someone please teach me how to sing..? please make me the person who will never be ignored by people..Please change my life.. I can only count on God & u guys.. If u know any free singing sites or if anyone of u teaches singing please give me ur email id and change my life...

• Answer:

  Please do not take advice from unqualified web advisers or wannabe singers whose 18th century logic has no basis factually or biologically and who have no qualifications in the understanding of laryngeal biomechanics. You can do damage to your young larynx if you listen to unqualified teachers of voice. For goodness sake your 14 and whining that you can't sing! Leave it in the hands of your God because I am sure that there is a path for you that he has chosen and it may not be singing. Singing won't stop people ignoring you, singing won't make you lucky, singing won't make you pretty. singing won't make you BE someone. It is from within. that you will find out who you are and who you can be. How do you know - might become the greatest Bass player in the world and female at that!!! You really are showing your age, a little girl, when you whine and young ladies who whine do not look pretty. Take it one day at a time please start believing in yourself and join a choir to start learning..