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CAN A MOTHER GET VISITATION AFTER SHE WAS PROVEN TO BE AN UNFIT MOTHER 13 YEARS AGO?

  • CAN A MOTHER GET VISITATION AFTER SHE WAS PROVEN TO BE AN UNFIT MOTHER 13 YEARS AGO? I am in need of some answers please.. I had a baby by a guy 15 years ago we were 17 when we had her i recently just got back in her life about a year ago. Her real father just got full sole and physical custody. When the child was 2 him and i broke up and went our separate ways. he moved to ny and i stayed in pa. he did come to see her every weekend and gave me money. well times were rough for me and i could no longer care for the child. so i dropped the child off to my aunt who was only suppose to care for the child till i could get my feet on the ground. a few days later they took me to court and her and her husband received custody. when asked who or where the father was we both lied and said we didn't know who the father was. i was proven to be an unfit mother because i didn't have a place to live nor did i have a job. i know stupid mistake. anyway the child is now 15 and lives with her father and his wife. they have a baby together also. He lives in nj and i live in nc. i filed for visitation but im scared of whats going to happen. i am nervous because i did have another child 7 years ago who i gave up for adoption because i felt it was the best thing for the child. my 15 year old from what i hear is doing very well where shes at and is honor roll in school. shes knows whats going on but im not sure if its the right thing? the father got custody after finding her and talking to a lawyer and found out that we lied and said we didn't know where he was. what are my chances. i tried to talk to them to do this without the courts but he wont let the child come here because he don't know me or what type of environment i live in. when the child lived with my aunt they lived in nc about 3 house from me so i did go and see her and she came to my house. i did have to take her to my work which is not a legal job. i work in peoples houses that have gambling machines in them. she sat in the living room for 6 hrs till my shift was over. but its really good money so that's why i stay there. do you thing the courts will check where i work? whats my chances of getting summer visitation?

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    With supervision ..one cannot deny the birth Mother the right to see her children unless she gave them up for adoption in some cases.

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I would think that the child is of age to make her won decisions assuming that she was not poisoned by her dad against you. there is also the possibility that you have no idea where they are currently living which can be a problem in itself. You need to show everybody involved that you changed turned your life around etc. Good luck

More than likely--even if she hasn't changed. Let's hope she has.

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