What to do if my parents are threatening me not giving me allowance for school if i don't follow them?

Well let's see your mother gave birth to you has helped support you your entire life bought you food clothing and shelter and in return ask for some help and you complain that you don't get a reward... Try this move out work a full time and support yourself!

Uhm... listen to her maybe?!!! *facepalm* Sheesh people these days...

Frankly, your mother could use some help in developing her parenting methods. However, this is obviously happening because you are constantly pushing her. She's trying to make the point that the parent-child relationship goes two ways. She supports you, teaches you, and guides you to good decision making so that you'll be ready for the world; and you respect and obey her. Would you be willing to support someone financially who was regularly disregarding your wishes and showing no respect? I suggest that you begin treating your mother the way you should. If there are rules which are a problem for you, then you should discuss them with her, not just disregard them. If you really want to act grown up, deal with things the way they are and make the best of it.

You poor little thing you have to wash the dishes...call child protective services

She is crazy. Call 911. Really. Or, if you are too coward then follow her orders as a slave untill you finish school and then get out of that house as soon as possible and neglect her. Make her suffer as she did to you, but maybe not in the same way. If it is getting really hard to make as she wishes, then while you're washing the dishes tell her: "Mum, please understand that i cant allways be your slave. I know you need help, but i dont exist only for you. I am a person and i have my own buissness." then finish with the dishes and go to your room. Theres allways the option of a psycologist. Tell him your problem and see if you can go to some sessions the both of you and arrange it. If none of this works, call 911.

She shouldn't have to threaten you...you should be disciplined enough to follow the rules of the house and to respect your parents. And it doesn't sound like a threat...it sounds like a consequence. if you don't follow the rules, there will be consequences. That's the way it is in life...except life's consequences are far worse than a simple restriction of allowance. And they aren't "orders"....they are rules in your family's household. There's no excuse to not follow rules of your parents. As long as you depend on them and/or live with them, then you need to abide by their rules. There is NO excuse. If you have a job....why do you need allowance? You should be using the money from your job to go to school and buy what you need....or, at the very least, pay rent and board to your parents. Yes, you have the right to an education....but she doesn't have to be the one paying for it. If you want an education so badly, then pay for it on your own. No one owes you anything in the real world. You have to work for it. Washing the dishes isn't a command...it's a simple chore. The least you can do is clean up and contribute to the household. You also need to respect your parents. Your lack of respect is appalling and won't get you anywhere.