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How can i make my grandma think im old enough to be on my own?

  • im a 15 year old female one grandma is really strict with me but i dont talk to her much, then there my grandma that raised me, i want to tell them that im not a child anymore and that im a grown teenager, i smoke & drink but i know how to take care of myself they dont know i drink, i want to be like those other girls that get to do those stuff but my grandma she keeps me trapped in this house i get depressed alot when im sad or something she either thinks somethings wrong with me or its a boy but its none of those it about life, like im already giving up im getting sick of not having my freedom i do those things but i still do my school cus iknow its important but i dont know i just want my freedom like my friends, cause at some point i just breakdown and wanting to kill myself, im getting tired of being treated like this, i take care of myself,the house,kids(babysitting) i dont know how to tell my other strict grandma just to let me go already!!!! at the moment i feel like crying.... someone help me please !!!

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    My parents were strict with me too. Then I had friends that had 150% freedom. I thought it was no fair too. Now, I'm soon to be 18 and they're are now 18 and now they're bored on going out, dancing, and flirting because they've been doing it for sooooo long. Now that I'm getting the chance to experience what they already did, it's more fun and better. Just be patient and quit trying to rush everything. You'll eventually have your turn. For the mean time, BE A TEENAGER NOT AN ADULT!!!!! Trust me I know what I'm saying. And when you do get that freedom, don't abuse it or you'll end up being like my friends 17/18 years old with a 2 year old responsibility or 2 responsibilities. Think about or you'll regret it. They all do at the end.

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My best friends mother was like this. But I first thing you need to do is take baby steps with her. Ask her to go somewhere close to home or get involved in a school activity and return when promised. Also you say you are a grown teenager. You are just a teenager and trust me she may know about the drinking and smoking and that could be why you are on lockdown, That doesn't show a level of maturity or responsibility and it is also illegal. And this behavior doesn't show her you can take care of yourself. Trust me all teenagers go through this phase and we think we r grown. But honey you have a lot more years and lot more sh-- to learn. When you start providing for the family, paying bills and taking care of the kids, grocery shopping, laundry and all the crap that comes your way as an ADULT then you realize that the teens years are some of the easiest years of your life..

Srop drinking and smoking! If she knos that u smoke,then she wont trust u!!! FOR CRTING OUT LOUD UR 15! U SHOULD NOT BE DOING THAT STUFF! GOD! I mean really! Just tell her! Srop being scared

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