My GF mother is making her feel guilty for having here come stay with me and my family.?
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I have asked and told my GF, who we have just had a baby recently on Dec 1 2010, to come and be with me and my family who can afford to support us while we bare the responsiblity of having a child before we were ready. She had wanted to stay with her mother in a different state then I and asked me to come there. Which I would have loved to go there I had no problem with until i got there and learned the mother has no form of transpertation, lives off food stamps/ child support/ unemployment as a mother of 3 daughters and the age 50 thats all she has to say for her life. Now i never made her or my girlfriend feel bad about that or put them down. I just simply told her theres no way we can make a life for us and our child there in such an unstabble enviroment. So i asked her to come stay with me and my family and let them help/ support us while we get on our feet and go threw college. Now here we have 3 cars which wed be able to use for any purpose as if they were ours. Here we can get to and from work, to and from the store, be able to take our child to and from the doctors ect. And she had loved this idea until she told her mother this and her mother made her feel like crap and did nothing but insult myself and put me down to her. Telling her how terrible i am for wanting to take her 19 yr old daughter away from her to be with the father of her child? I am looking for someone to help me tel not just her but her mother she is a godly women and i will giv eyou an exaple of what i need to say back to her and her mother Here is something her mother has recently said to me Brittany you know what it is like to have god in your life and no one else will ever be able to comfort that feeling but god. Like I have always thought you, always depend on God to direct you and you will never go wrong. People that bully ...you, pressure you and give ultimatums are not concerned about what is good for you or Tristan. Always listen to your heart baby girl, god will direct you and he will also show you the truth on anything that is truly against you. You only have one commitment to god and the other commitment is to Tristan. Mommy loves you with all my heart and I will be praying for you always. I have people here praying for you also. Remember no one that sets out to harm you will ever prosper, for you are a child of god. Dont let anyone make you feel any different either. You are a very special person yourself and dont let anyone tell you different. I love you always!!! or You are and always will be my sweet baby girl. I love you with all my heart. No one will ever love you or take care of you the way I do. You are a mommy yourself now and you are going to have to learn the hard way. Don't let any one degrade you or make you feel less than the person you are. No one has the right to give you ultimatums or pressure you into doing any thing you don't want to. I love you!!! I need christain response to this so please nothing immature. Thank you to anyone who can lend me a hand.
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you don't even have your own car? if you can't afford that and your starting a family before you go on to school...I hope you kiss your parents butt 24/7 because it sounds like their going to be helping you out a lot for the next 5years Anyways my rude statement aside do you have to use god in your response? personaly I think this is between you and her not her and god. anyways goodluck
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