How to get to Wisconsin dells from Madison airport?

We wanted to live as a family but today I'm leaving United States forever, do you think its right choice?

• My name is Isabella Ray. I was born in a small rural town in New Zealand. Early in life, I was a party girl and was into unthinkable activities that I can't mention on her. I left those things behind and repented but people who I know like my family didn't treat me so good because of what I did in the past. Sooner after that in 2007, Blackwater hired me and sent me to Pakistan as an Internal Auditor because big money was flowing in and very few were there to manage it besides the spying activities. I spent 4 years there. Before going there, I married my ex in 2006 and gave birth to my older son Kevin. After recovering, I went to Pakistan and went through an extremely hard time there. My one of colleagues was gunned down right before my eyes. She was shot in the eye in the back seat of car. She literally saved my life. And I grew very sensitive after that and got different therapies. Well I gave birth to another baby in 2008. And just before his birth, my ex divorced me for not resigning from the job in Pakistan which was another big shock. Well in 2010, I resigned. And moved back to New Zealand. The same year I resigned, I co-incidently started talking to a handsome tall man on internet who was from Minnesota. We, on the internet, fell for each other which might be unbelievable to some of you. And soon we thought we were meant for each other. He wanted me there to move in with him with the kids and he even told me that he would adopt the kids. So I applied for green card and during the long process of getting it, my older son passed away on September 16th, 2011 which was another shock. I finally got my green card in november and decided to move to minnesota in december with my only son. Well we all were so much happy. My flight was on December 28th to Madison, Wisconsin and then to Minneapolis after 1 hour wait in Madison. When I got to Madison, one of the Airline employee announced that flight is 6 hours. I posted on facebook hoping that He would see my post and come to Madison and get us. He claims that he didn't see it which is impossible. I couldn't wait in the madison airport for 6 hours so I went through immigration and got out of airport and cab driver took me to some motel. I had to move all the luggage from place to place myself because people weren't so friendly there. I didn't have my love's phone number because my younger son broke my old phone back in New Zealand his number was in it so i couldn't call him. But I strongly believe that he saw the post and deliberately didn't come and left us there stranded. Anyways I posted again but he didn't come. Instead, my cousin came all the way to madison with her newborn and husband. They took us to Minneapolis but I was so heartbroken and hopeless that I didn't want to meet him at all. He lied to me so many times before and this was just another attempt of lying. Now he's sorry and wants to come pick us from my cousin's. But I can't forgive him because I can't take it anymore. I know he truly loves me but I just don't know why he can't stop lying to me. I finally booked seats in American Airlines yesterday and I leave here today. I'm just so hopeless. I came all the way from New Zealand just to be with him and this is what I got. We leave here at 1PM today and its 9:45 am right now. What do you think should I leave or give him another chance? One thing is for sure that I love him so much and can't just get him out of my mind but I can't take his bullcrap anymore either. What do you say? Any advices?

• Answer:

  Ultimately you will have to make up your own mind as to what to do. If the guy has told you before that he would never do whatever again and then did it, You can bet that he will repeat this behavior. I can't tell you what to do, but I have been in a relationship that was pretty much like that and believe me, he won't change!.....Good luck