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How long does it take for a girl to get pregnant is she cheating on me?

• just wondering coz mygirl friend is pregnant and last time we did it was about a little over a month ago when i graduated form boot camp, we had only 2 days and only one of those 2 days we were allowed to get off base, and she came back home. I hope she is not cheating on me or any hting but then i dont trust any one but my self i have trust issues so how long does it take coz i really dont want to drop the is it mine bomb on her dik weatheer she'd cheat on me or not i only now her for 3mo's like personally then i got shipped so we wrote to eachohter and almost skype every night. She spent her money and came for my graduation, and she work like form 4am to 2pm almost every day wiht one day off a week and on top of that she has school. the only reaosn i'm kinda worried is that she is way too hot idk how i got her in the first place she kinda came after me then i stepped up. first impression of her was what a spoiled little b!tc# but turned out to be a real nice girl, and she's 2yrs older than me i'm 22 she's 24 And i swear i pulled out, and first she thought she was sick then took a test and founf out so idk i'm not an expert in this area, and im not trying to bail out on the kid and her just paranoid, coz for a girl like her it won't be hard to find some one else

• Answer:

  Uhhhhh... well, during the first two weeks, the baby's kinda just forming. But so you know, there's also precum that might have gotten her knocked up... and so anyways, she might be pregnant now. So, yeah, I really don't think she's cheating on you. If she came after you, especially, and especially if you're not a dick or anything. Sounds like you don't really care though.... Ask yourself these questions: "Am I willing to be a father?" If yes, then it proves you're a pretty good guy. :) If not, then you should probably discuss it with her. You didn't specify her reaction or your reaction, really, so it would be nice if you would include a few more details. "Do I want to be tied to her for the rest of my life?" If no, then you need to discuss her pregnancy for the rest of your life because, whether or not you want the baby, it's going to be yours (most likely? Because I highly doubt there's any way else that she could have had sex at the same exact time) and you're going to have to pay child support and what not. "Do I actually love her and will I love the baby?" It's important that you love her, and before you even think "Nah, it's okay, she can have the baby, whatever.", think about if she's worth it, how good of a dad you'll be, etc. etc. Really important. So! I really, really hope you're willing to be the dad. It's depressing to hear about aborted babies. You may just give the baby up for adoption, but still.... think of the life that poor kid would probably have. :( Good luck with your girlfriend<3 Take care of her and the baby<333