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Need good advice not put downs.. How do i tell my sister how i realy feel about her?

  • I guess it started at age 11 and she was 14 and now i lover her deeply. we would sleep in same bed and she would let me put my upper leg around her hip as we sleepd and i would get an erection. I feel in love with the smell her beautiful long hair and puting my arms and legs around her as we sleeped. When i would be in same bed with her if felt like my brain was melting and i could not controll myself from falling in love. Now im 15... i have deeper feelings for my older sister i lover her so incredibly...Now she hurt my heart in the worst way... And now inside i have fallen apart. Every night i go to bed i have emotional brake downs... looking at her picture every night wishing we could be together for reasons i dont fully understand.... Mosty nights i cant sleep worried she might fall in love with someone instead of me... All this pain and suffering over started from her boy friend of 2 months whom i hate with a deep passion.... I cant take to see them together... i kno i can treat my sister better then him. I feel like bashing her boys friends skull in with a hammer as he sleeps next to my sister every night... he took away everything from me. I feel if she ever fell in love with someone instead of me i would not beable to handly it, i lover he to much to see her with a differnt man. As i feel the clock ticking down....tick tock in my head... i cant bear to see them together... feels like im out of time to do somthing about her boy friend.... i just cant stand him any every minute im losing my chances of my sister feeling the same way about me.... Tho i do understand theres a chance she will never feel the same way about me... tho i feel most take a chance on telling her... i dont fully understand my emotions and why i feel this way. I guess i come on this website for... your guidance on this... sad screwed up story about my emotions that i cant control.

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    You can control your emotions. The only reason you can't is because you don't want to. I don't have to tell you that there is no way your obsession is ever going to work. Your sister is your sister. You need to go out and meet other girls. This is not even a possibility. Why are you making yourself miserable over something that is forbidden and just plain wrong? You can be happy and have a normal life. Get out of the house and get involved with other people. YOU are the one in charge of your life.

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well, in the United States, it is against the law for you to be with your sister. in some countries, it was actually custom to have relatives marry to make a royal baby from two true blue bloods. however.. since we are in the 21st century now, i am going to tell you to search for some help. if its true professional therapy, or the local bar tender .. you definitely need to talk to someone. this is NOT ok.. nor normal for you to be having these kinds of thoughts about your sister. you need to find someone else. someone that isn't your family... geeze.. thats so wrong on so many levels

That kind of feeling is wrong. You really need to get help. Find someone else that is not in your family. In this country its illegal to be with a sibling, or cousin. Get help.

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