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LGBT relationship issues. Please help?

• Okay, so this is a little long. But it would mean the world to me if you answered. (: A couple of weeks ago, I went on a school trip to an amusment park. When I got there, I didn't know who to hang out with, because none of my good friends were going. So, a group of 5 girls offered to hang out with me. I didn't know them that well, but well enough to call them friends. So, we went on a couple of rides & were walking around, when a girl who I know to be bisexual started to flirt with me. Let's call her Claire. So, me and Claire were feeling obvious vibes from eachother. We were holding hands and hugging the whole time. When we got on the bus, me and Claire sat next to eachother. She was laying on my shoulder & lap and was getting extra cozy. We began texting things like "I like you," "I can't help but wonder what it's like to kiss you," and "You should come over to my house tonight." So, I went over to her house, and her whole family was there, so we couldn't do anything. The night ended. Then, I went to church with her the next morning. She seemed kind of down, so I asked her what's wrong, and she said her friend, Rachel, was mad at her. I asked why and she said because she's very christian and doesn't support LGBT. So she was down the rest of the day, and I went home. A couple days went by, and we were back in school. When we were at school, it was obvious she was ignoring me. This was Mon-Wed. So on Wed. i texted her, and asked her what was going on between us, and she was really upset. She said because I told one of my friends about what happened on the trip, that she couldn't trust me. I told her that's the only person I told, and I didn't realize it was a secret. So we made up. Throughout the course of the next few days, we began texting. It wasn't things about our relationship like I hoped. More like, "Whatsup, How's life?, What are you up to?" sort of thing. So, after that, I asked her why she was acting weird. She said "I'm moving 3 hours away." About half an hour later, she left. After that, I began texting her again, saying how much I missed her. Then all we talked about...was pretty much nothing. On a good day, she said "For my birthday, I want us to have dinner together. Just the two of us." and something like "We should see a movie as soon as I get back." Which, she would be getting back in 4 weeks. But that was pretty much the only "romantic" thing we talked about. I began to get upset and stopped texting her for about 2 days to see if she cared enough to text me. She didn't. She said that she was really stressed out about her friends not accepting her and the move and all that. We got into an argument about me not caring about her feelings, and I said that we had terrible communication and that our relationship is going nowhere. I said that if she loves me so much (because she did say she loves me) then why can't we date? So Claire replied with "I'm ready for a serious relationship, I just can't date you yet." Then I sent her a very long message about how much I loved her & cared for her, and how I'd wait for her. She replied with "Awe <3" then she had to leave. (It was around 3 AM. The conversation was on Facebook, if that makes a difference.) I haven't talked to her since. I plan to wait until Friday, to give space, until I text her again. Can somebody please give me advice? I honestly don't know what to do. If you need more info, I can give you some. I really care about her, but I can only wait so long. I have another girl who wouldn't come with all the drama who I know for a fact likes me and wants to go out. But I can't just leave Claire with unanswered questions. I can't read her mind, and she seems to think I can. Somebody...PLEASE HELP! If it makes a difference, me and Claire are in our early teens. Thanks again.

• Answer:

  I think you should stop playing Claire's game. In the first place, 'early teens' is not 'ready for a serious relationship.' I think she is really enjoying the attention you give her, but I don't believe she feels nearly as strongly as you do. Back off and see what she does. If she cares, let HER make the next move. If she doesn't -- move on.