How To Love?

Something I don't get about falling in love and how it's different.?

• I believe that love is blind, I'm not gonna plan this, I'm just gonna type, i want to know why people thing that love is different in terms of sexual orientations or couples or whatever you want to call them. like why do heterosexuals feel like they can never love another guy and vice versa for a girl? Love is a chemical imbalance we get, love starts with a friendship and then it blooms to something else, but it's so weird how people say that two guys can not fall in love, who are heterosexuals, I think in terms we fall in "lust" with someone, and think that "lust" is love, but "lust will fade" and then their gonna get bored of each other, (sometimes maybe not maybe that lust will grow into love) but I don't get why people don't give it a shot, who cares about society, I like how the GLTB community knows what their saying that "love is blind" because love really is blind" if we take the sex out of a relationship we'd see more M/M and W/W relationships. And I'm not being ignorant but I just think it's hypocritical for people to say that. People think just because a gay guy loves a straight guy the straight guy would want to have sex with him, no if the gay person confesses he does love him he would abolish sex and give it up because he does love him and vice versa for a girl too, when two people fall in love it's neither right or wrong for them to be together. Sex isn't everything in a relationship, plus how many times have you masturbated to yourself? I think Lust really does destroy the whole purpose of being in love. (sorry for using labels) I'm just saying what I'm venting off. I'm saying this because maybe I'm pansexual, because when I fell in love with a girl I thought I was straight, but then my best friend who was a guy for quite a few years I started to get emotional and romantic love with him and I saw no difference when these two things happened.

• Answer:

  just because you can see anyone does not mean we can, I only like women, I was born this way and it is natural