Is there a way to make my speaking voice more appealing?

How to make speaking voice higher for guys?

• this probably seems strange, but I'm a smaller guy (average height, but really thin) and I've always considered myself to be a softer human; not gay, but "in touch with my feminine side" and sensitive. but i have this deep voice that doesn't fit my personality at all. People expect me to have a soft voice and then it's just like really low. Is there anything I can do to change this? I'm 21, and my voice changed when i was like 14 and a half or 15. I can also sing really high (high tenor), but i have a lot of weight in my voice throughout my middle range that I want to get rid of. Learning how to speak in that register normally will probably help with that too any help is appreciated, thanks guys!

• Answer:

  Go on Youtube and look up videos on vocal training for transgender women. This will teach you a lot of useful techniques, only your goal is much easier than attaining a natural-sounding woman's voice. If you have a background in singing, this will be much easier. Focus less on changing pitch and more on changing where you're speaking from. Speaking from your head rather than your chest will adjust your resonance to remove much of the bass. It's where women generally speak from. You can adjust by feel from there until you're at the place you want, but I'll warn you that it will generally take quite a bit of practice before your voice becomes "anchored" in the new place. What do other people think of your voice? Have you considered the possibility that it just sounds weirder to you than it does to outside listeners?