How can I stand out? Guys opinions please, also girls?
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How can I stand out? Guys opinions please, also girls? Im fifteen, long brunette hair, reasonably skinny - size 8-10. I wear nice dresses and skirts when im out at discos. And id say i have average to just below average looks. When i go out, I don't get noticed by guys. Im kinda shy but they just don't come up 2 me. I walk around the disco but no guys come up to me. How can i get them to notice me? Plus.. I don't wear tacky clothes, nice dresses and stuff like I said before, you know the modern type dresses and stuff - which are short enough - inbetween my bum ( which is pretty big) and my knee. Please help :)
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Answer:
Just be yourself, If it doesn't attract these guys then they are not for you. Don't be someone you are not. There is someone for everyone.
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Hey girrrl! Okay for guys to approach you, you have to look approachable! Walk with good posture and smile whenever someone looks at you. For hair you could try curling it, since most girls wear it straight. I'm not sure what color your eyes are, but certain colors make your eyes pop more. Such as golds and purples make green eyes pop more. Go to victoria's secret and buy the sparkly liquid eyeliner that they have, its super cute. It will make your eyes pop more too, and they have a variety of colors. Just keep a smile on your face, and have fun and dance. Guys will take notice and approach you. But don't trust so easy. You don't know who the guy is, so always stay with friends, for safety!
it's really hard to stand out & i know by experience. sometimes i feel like i'm just blending into the crowd. But you have to beat that perspective! You have to be positive, say to yourself in the morning "Today's gonna be a good day", put on some highlighter to make yourself glow but remember the best glow is not from the outside but from the inside :) Look NATURAL! & be comfortable in your own skin. Don't be SHY! Make a move. I know Personally that guys are either really lazy or REALLY SHY, they wont' make the first move sometimes, so go up to them and make a funny comment or observation, Spark up a conversation. be unique and find something in yourself that NO OTHER GIRL HAS. Do you have a talent? A Hobby? Show off your talent but most importantly your personality & be real. when i was younger i always found myself doubting whether or not a guy would like my personality or i would get really scared to say something i REAALLY wanted to say but didn't because i was afraid people would think i'm weird. Be You. You cannot say "I have average to just below average looks" because any guy who is interested in you wouldn't think that, they would think you're "the most beautiful girl in the world". If you hold that same negativity of "average to just below average looks" so is everyone else. So, be more self-confident and some practice to start being more social is "smiling" while someone walks by or say "Hello, good afternoon, etc". you're in high school right now...high school can be very hard. I just graduated and got out from high school and I was just like you. When a guy tells you you are beautiful, believe it! Don't brush it off like I did during high school & i did that because I DIDN"T have confidence. So Be confident and be YOU!
don't worry someone will come up to you
your only 15, i wouldn't worry about it. Guys probably dont really know how to approach you either at that age.
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