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What do you do at a girls quinceañera party?

Daughter is having 13th bday party this Sat. none of the girls have let her know they are coming?

  • we are new to this school, but from the first day my daughter made some new friends and wanted to invite them to her party. They all sounded as if it was great, but not a one of them has committed to coming. This is middle school, so I don't have the luxury of knowing the kids, muchless the parents since they only talk at school I wouldn't care, but I am paying for a dance studio where the girls can have a hip hop dance party. Eight girls are invited to this and then four are supposed to come to sleepover with crafts, food, and music. A big party plan for us a nd she's really excited - the only ones that we know are coming are her very loyal friends from her old school- 2. That's a big party for 3 girls. Should I cancel the dance party and lose my deposit? But then again, what if the kids show up at the studio without telling us they are coming? All it would take for me to know is a little time from the parents to make a simple call- but then again what if the invites never reached the parents? I hate this, I wanted to do something special for my daughter, and now I'm afraid it's only going tomake her sad! Help!!

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    Have her tell the girls at school that the studio needs to know how many kids will be there for insurance reasons and ask if they are coming. This way nobody looks as if they are being pushy. Have her tell them to call her that night after talking to their parents.

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I would call the parents and tell them that your daughter is friends with their kids and that she's having a birthday party and wondered if they had heard about it. Then explain that you'll need to know if they're coming. If you ask your daughter to ask them at school, she may not get a definite yes or no. Good luck!

Have your daughter ask her friends if they are coming.

Just call the parents. It's no big deal -- invitations get lost, people can't seem to bother RSVPing, etc. It's better to be safe than sorry and to have a count of who's expected to be there.

you need to get in touch with the parents asap! don't wait or you'll have a crushed daughter, 13 is hard! try to make is as easy as possible get the info on these girls and call the parents!

Call the parents and ask. At least that way you'll know. Presumably if they're all 13 they will have to have told their parents about the party before being able to come. If they really aren't coming then yes - cancel he party and have a sleepover for the 3 girls. Buy some stuff from the body shop (masks etc) and make it a DVD and girly night. Just make sure your 13 year old doesn't think you're making a big deal of this either way.

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