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  • OK so my fiancee and I have two children. One is 3 and one is 10 months. We are planning on getting married May of 2009. We want another baby, so we decided that I take my IUD out the middle of April and hopefully be pregnant by July of 2009 and Have the baby April of 2010. I was talking to my co-worker about it and she is planning on getting married in September of 2009 and hopefully become pregnant in November of 2009. I was joking with her saying she ruined my plans and she replied "Well you already have two let me have my one" So i took that kinda in a wierd way. Then she was saying "well you don't even have room for another one" when we are going to buy a house as well. I don't know. When I was pregnant with my daughter three of us were pregnant at the same time. So I don't want her to be mad at me if we are pregnant togather! But we want another baby and we like to keep them not far apart! What should I do??

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    Have your baby and screw her. She sounds JEALOUS.

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I mean no offense, but in the big scheme of things, who cares? You know what I mean? Both times I got pregnant while I was working, pregnancies came in threes. There were always at least three of us that were pregnant at the same time. No big deal. I'm sorry she was being a little snotty, but does it really matter? Don't let other people have that much power of you. Just shrug it off and move on. Maybe she was having a bad day and was taking her frustrations out on you. If you two really do end up pregnant at the same time, I doubt either of you are really gonna care. You'll both just be happy that you're being blessed with a child. *On a side note, this is why I've never really discussed my personal life with anyone at work. If we were really good friends and when out to dinner, then fine. That's the time to discuss personal plans, lifestyles and goals. At work though, I stuck to general topics specifically to avoid awkward situations like this one.

Proud

I'm not being mean, but you *did* make the little jab at her, first, even if jokingly... Apparently, she didn't take it as much of a joke, and it turned serious... It happens. Bottom line is, it doesn't matter: you're both grown women, and don't need to let a petty conversation, ruin things. (This is why I never got close with my co-workers!)

CelticChiliPepper

Are you kidding? It's your life- do what you want. By November of 2009 you might not even work together anymore!

sarah jane

I would personally carry on with your plans as you and your fiancee discussed. Nobody else can dictate how to live your life and if thats what you want to do then so be it. If it happens you're pregnant at the same time then thats the way it goes, but dont rearrange your life because it doesnt suit somebody else as im sure they wouldnt do it for you! Lifes too short and your family comes first to you so do whats right for you and your family.

chezza mummy to shannon and zoe!

what? that is ridiculous!!! i know about 10 people expecting/just had babies including me. regardless of anybody else's baby plans my husband and i had planned on getting pregnant for over a year before it actually happened and nobody else's baby plans would have stopped our own. maybe she just doesn't want you to "steal her thunder" but that is just dumb. go about your plans as you were going to because nobody else's life plans should alter your own.

silly nilly

go ahead with your plans & have your baby...f*ck what your co-worker issues with u & your plans are...u were not put on this earth 2 please anyone, especially a jealous person...u cant please everyone every time...

{*BLACC: DA BEAUTY*}

just ignore her!!! is your life & body and you decide when to ahve your kids!! dont pay attention to her. Good Luck and I hope your plans become real. !

♥ Due 04/22/2010 ♥

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