Big problems with my only 4 yrs old?
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I dont know how to teach her say hello when she goes to public,or even to family members? wherever i go people say hi to me or to my daughter but she doesn't even answer to them or if she does she is doing like she is so shy,but i know she isn't shy girl. also even when we go to my family she wont say nothing,i have to push her to say hi,or buy Im talking to her that she has to say hi and buy but its seems doesn't work. also i have problem with her with talking,i mean the way she is talking like if she doesn't like something or who make her mad she is just saying with mad face and cross hands"im a princess" "give me this right now" also im tailing her that's not good to say that and not even polite,but she is ignoring me. she has time out at home every time she is not behave good but what to do if she is like that out?what punishment should i use? i don't want to beat her but sometimes i want to just wrrrrrr. \also she is acting like a baby,crying for nothing.\she is spoiled,but im tough on her and my husband is not and so when my daughter seeing me mad,and not let her to do what she wants she goes to her father. i have to also make punishment for peeing on her self,she is so lazy or what?\ she knows what to do when she needs to go and stuff but still doesnt. did any one of u had or have same problem as me? how to fix that problem?\ how should i talk to my daughter to make her going easy with that stuff and doing right things? or is this just like that for some time only and soon will go?\ or maybe i should send her to daycare which im thinking to do soon i'll move to \bc in few days all answers are really appreciated
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Answer:
Peer interaction (such as daycare or gymnastics or whatever) will help -- a little peer pressure/feed back is a good thing. Also, get out the dolls. You can direct the play toward social situations such as "Hi, Skipper! I'm Barbie." (She, playing Skipper, can practice conversation and interaction that way)
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I am going through a lot of the same things you are going through now. My boy is about to turn 5 and I sometimes never thought I would get through this year! Who ever said the terrible twos were bad were wrong! Everything out of my son's mouth is sassy and the next minute he is saying I love you. We are the ones that have to stay calm, and consistant because the are looking up to us to see how to act. These are the years that shape their lives and if we don't keep at it we will have problems later. My mom always told me she always loves me just not always the things i do. Kids have to know you will always love them, and they can come to you about anything. If they feel they can't talk to you the will go to some one else. Hitting them only shows them violence is ok. If you are in public, remove them from the situation. Sometimes it is just to much infomation at once. As far as wetting herself, ask her every half hour or so, especially when she gets up , after she eats, and while she is playing. Remember to stay calm, they are little sponges right now, and the notice everything you do.It is a hard job but what is more important. Good luck
Kim Ames-belfiore
my almost 3 year old does nt speak ,she talks things no one understands and acts like a one year old ,sometimes she says hi and bye to strangers ,sometimes she s ignoring people . it s frustrating is your daughter doing speech therapy ? maybe that s the way to go for now
hijab
You say she's not shy. Maybe not with your immediate family but every where else is still new to her and she might just be afraid. give her time, and work on your spelling
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