What to teach my kid?
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hi i m a mother of 3 years old kid ,we r recently shifted to tokyo. now here when my husband goes to office me and my son are alone whole day.there are no kids of his age around us .so there is no one to play with him.so i feel that he feels very lonely because he love kids.i taught him alphabets ,numbers ,days months ,etc.but pls can anyone suggest me what kind of games i should play with him for his social,mental and physical growth so that when v will be back to india he can easily adjust in his school enviorment there.
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Answer:
Honestly, I don't think this would be the answer you want to hear but I would think in order for him to have social skills at his level ( to associate with kids his age) he would need to interact with kids. Is there a park near by ? Maybe you can meet other mothers there and he can play with other kids. I am sure moving to a new city is very difficult when you don't know anyone .. but have you tried other wives of ur husbands co workers? They most likely have also been relocated. After all its not just a different city, its a different country and culture.. so it may help finding other parents and kids .. cz u can teach everything u think is good and right for him in theory an he in theory will also respond, but when its time to apply that theory, I would think he will need that interaction.
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i hav a 3 yr old daughter too(only daughter).i hav been gng thru the same phase .i can tell u my experience if it cud b of n e help besides going 2 parks museums,i play wid my kid n i got her toys which hav different animals,alphabetical foam n numbers, n coloring books,she loves 2 color ,n lots of educational cds which help her learn orally alphabets,clay moulding, water paints under ur guidence n presence ,crafting(cutting pasting) .last month i dint put up her in n e school yet but one of my frnz who's kids r gng 2 school got the syllabus n i bought books of rhymes n try 2 make her read n sing n color according to the school curriculum ..if ur child has n e interest can act according 2 tht..out door- he cud even ride his bicycle.apart frm all the effort i put still she felt bored n lonely at times ,i obsereved tht social life is essential fr our children whether the company of older age kids or not, now am planning fr a second kid jus fr her,though handling too kids wil b a lil more challenging bt they wil hav each other's companyn,jus like having a frnd at home,they may play quarell eat n sleep together.u can Even c if there r n e facilities of play school near by 2 ur place, can help him engage in n interact wid other kids...(if ur child is getting admitted 2 indian school sooner this is the best time to teach him ,train him every lil physical activity of daily chores he must b able 2 do things on his own away frm u whn he wil b in a school all my himself ,the schools there need ready made trained kids n teachers wil hav several other kids 2 deal wid n wont b as particular as u wud b 2 ur child. hope this may help u 2 sm extent.goodluck !
fatima
hey not to be dis heartning but you are going to have to find a playgroup or somewhere there is kids his age to play with he needs interaction with other kids or he will have a problem adjusting to school he will only want you because he will be too attached to you if you get me goodluck, even take him to a park or put him in a early learning playgroup hope this helped
sez87
There really isn't a substitute for other children. Somehow you need to find him at least one other child his own age to play with, at least two or three times a week. Get your husband to ask his work colleagues, they could have wives and children in a similar situation and you could form a parent and toddler group. Good luck :-)
Melissa
Well I am a stay at home mom. I have 3 kids, 8, 6, and 2. When the weather is nice I try to get them outside at much as I can. We go for walks, look at animals, play kick ball, hide and seek. There are tons of things you can do outside. Parks and museums as well. When it is not so nice weather out we find things to do. I am not big on t.v. so I don't let them watch it that much. I try to find projects to do. We bake together, I have made goop together (you can get the recipe online). We play board game, draw, finger paint. You name it we do it. There are lots of things you can do with kids. Hope this helped.
Jenn
take your baby to park join rides, play some useful indoor games like snake n ladder or hide n seek. you can teach your baby painting or drawing
simar m
u can take him to nearby parks where other children come let him play with them for 1 hour.u can tell him stories,buy cds of nursery rhymes.,cartoon etc,
annie
I just had a similar problem not too long ago. I'm sorry i can't be more helpful. I know what form of situation you're describing...
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