How can i go back to school and get a job having two kids ones a 4 year old and the other is a new born?
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hi im 20 years old and i have two kids ones 4 and the other one is a new born ....i dont know how to do it and iam so confused about how i can get my life on the right path... i feel like im stuck and don't know how to get going... i want to go back to school for my GED and get a job.. i wonder if im going to have time for my family.. i want to better my kids life and i know the only way is to go back to school.. and yes im a single parent.. i wonder if any one out there as any advice to give me... ooo and yes i know i should wait a little bit to do all this stuff that i want to do.. but im in this alone and i dont get a job and go back to school then on one else will... please if you could would you give me some advice..
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you messed up big time....
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You must find a good babysitter. You will NOT be able to concentrate on your schoolwork while you are watching your kids. I had to drop out when my daughter was a baby because I had no one to watch her. Ask your family for help or if you don't have anyone that will there are places that will help you find daycare and help you with it. Also, take it slowly. You are not going to be able to finish it as quickly as you could without kids. Took me twice as long because you also need to have a job and be there for your kids.
If ur town is like mine or if you live in a city go to a collage and get to know about the online course, lots of collages have this option or you can take one day and go to a class and do the rest online what ever is suitable for your life style :)
You should see if theres a way to take online courses for your GED and then college later on. I would suggest you to some, but you know what you like in a school and what area you are in(not sure if that really matters) but thats your best bet so you can stay home with your kids and while they are plaing, eating, or watching tv you can have a laptop with you and finish your ged and then college. and when your youngest is old enough to go to school, you can even actually go to college and get your masters or finish bachelors ect. if you don't want to do it online, a trusty babysitter is your next best bet. one that will teach and nourish your children the way you would! gl hope it helped (;
how old were you when you got married ... you are very young me i got married at 18 and now i have 2 kids and i am 21 years old but i am still married i also left school and still did not go to university but my husband work so i have n problem at all why dont you put your kids in your mother house for a while until you finish your study i mean live with your parents this period only until you are done from your studies and when you get a job you can rent a house and stay with your kids there
With a new born it will be very hard unless you have a good home support...grandparents etc. I would just put things on hold for now, let your baby get little older and healthier before and start dropping him/her off for long hours. Meanwhile you can study on your own, improving your Math and English, so when you take the college placement test, you will score well and bypass at the least 1 or 2 classes per subject. That also means time and money saved!! I did not go to college until I was 30, but loving it now .... so, be patient, you are young and will have plenty of time. Good luck with it all!!
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