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When ppl are rude to me in front of my child?

When ppl are rude to me in front of my child?

  • I am so so sick of ppl being rude to me in front of my baby It doesn't happen very often but when it does I get so ticked. Its one thing to be rude to me alone, I can handle it, but it seems the ppl are ruder when i have my baby w/me And it's usually other women around my age. Is it jealousy? What is it? Yeah men can be rude too but not as much. Here's an example: I went to this mini-farm w/my daughter later on today after she napped and had lunch and it was later in the day so i looked forward to not having to deal w/ a crowd as it was cold. We were just walking and this girl wirh her guy friend were laughing behind us. I heard the girl say "you'e so gross" I hd this weird feeling about them for some reason, so I stopped walking and stepped aside for them to pass. The guy was kind of smirking at me it seemed. My daughter was looking at them (she looks at everyone lol) and the girl was like "hi" to her and I just kind of smiled at the girl as she was being nice to my daughter and I wanted to acknowledge that and she was like what? f*ckin.." and didnt finish ...she kinda muttered it and was looking at me but walking away saying it I pretended I didn't hear but that kind of bugs me. i dont ever act like that to ppl let alone if they have their little girl or boy with them. And I esp. dont act like that if Im saying hi to THEIR kid and they're the parent and SMILING at me. I know I shouldnt let it get to me but it does. I do have a problem of being too sensitive but it's bc I really am a nice person and try to be. I guess I just dont get why she said that to me? And anyone who talks to my child when I'm right there I do kind of glance at bc I want to see who is talking o her and also bc she was in my way of vision. When i would say hi to other ppls chidlren the Parents would always look at me to see what kind of person's talking to their kid and I have a right to do the same. I just wanted to take my daughter out and have fun and not be misjudged.

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    "Is it jealousy? What is it?" Given that these people were pretty clearly not speaking to you or otherwise paying any attention to you -- and that you are here posting a question about it -- I'm going to go with "Paranoid personality disorder is a psychiatric diagnosis characterized by paranoia and a pervasive, long-standing suspiciousness and generalized mistrust of others. Those with the condition are hypersensitive, are easily slighted, and habitually relate to the world by vigilant scanning of the environment for clues or suggestions to validate their prejudicial ideas or biases. They tend to be guarded and suspicious and have quite constricted emotional lives. Their incapacity for meaningful emotional involvement and the general pattern of isolated withdrawal often lend a quality of schizoid isolation to their life experience." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paranoid_personality_disorder

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sounds to me like you encountered a young couple and I bet none of what they said had anything to do with you. You said the guy "kind of smirked" Maybe he just has a goofy smile. After all, he may have just realized you overheard some of what they were talking about and was a bit embarrassed. No offense but I would blow the whole thing off. None of that had anything to do with you. How did you acknowledge the fact that a strange woman was being nice? That called for nothing more than a returning smile and you going on your way. you are definitely overly sensitive but being out with a baby makes people more observant to their surrounding and that is probably why. I wouldn't give the incident a second thought.

ckngbbbls

Im not exactly sure what problem your having, but I hope that people will be less rude to you when you are out with your kid so that you have a good time.

CROJ

I would have to agree with the paranoia answer a few above me.

HalfWayThere

That's weird, I've never had an issue like that. It bothers me when people use bad language in front of my children though. I've actually asked people not to cuss in front of my children. I guess all you can do about it is move on and forget about it. It's probably a good thing you ignored it and kept going.

Put them on ignore. 97% of the people out there are not worth having for friends. Just let it go.

Depp fan

Just tell them look can you please not say anything mean to me in front of my child.And plus you have the right to look at the person your child is talking to you. you wouldnt want them talking to some rapist or kidnapper or something.If they still be mean to you then just ignore them.

gabriellemaldonado39

Just ignore it and move on. I learned a VERY long time ago to not let what people say or think get to me. The only thing that matters is your and your child, you know that you did nothing wrong. Imagine how miserable these people must be if they have to go around being rude to others, I feel sorry for them really.

Skye

lol aww poor lady. Well i don't think your crazy! Those people were probably a bunch of d-bags. People give me the dirtiest looks because my son has long wavy hair...we're letting it grow till he asks us to cut it. Some are probably just trying to figure out if he's a boy or a girl (long hair....but boy clothes hmmm..thats a tough one lol) Others probably think its just plain ugly. Ignore them. You'll probably never see them again.

GabrielsMomma

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