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Why do they Always make me feel like the bad guy? when im really the good one! help im very hurt!?

• this is actually kind of long ,but i will make it as brief as possible. So, my father recently got injured and needs care 24hrs a day at home, and my 32 yr old sis still lives at home with them with her little family too. I the baby sister have a family of my own, own house ,car and a resposnible hubby who takes great care of us. Im 6 years younger then my sis .My sis doesnt have a car or a job. Shes been unemployed for 2yeras now and she has a 10yr old daughter i have a 18 month old baby. My sis just drives around whatver cars my parents can provide for her cuz her hubby cant even provide a reliable car for her. So my parents little car (old by the way) needed some quick fixes so they can have a car to get a round and my hubby did my fathter the favor to fix that for them ,so my sis can continue to drive them around and do favors fro them. This is also my sis only means of transportation too. So, my father had asked me if i could take him to his dr appt 1 hour and a half away and i said yes ,even though i have to wake up my baby who doesnt sleep right anyway ,since he didnt have a ride. But since we fixed there car i told my mother now you can have my sis take him to the dr , that way i wont have to wake up my baby and not take her all the way over there. (my baby is not one of those who you just sit in a car and can go to to the mall with you). (she is a hard to deal with Baby). But my mom told me that it wasnt gonna be posible So my dad calls me every angry demanding to know if im gonna take him. I told him , now they go there car fixed since my sis is at home all day has no baby and knows how to drive she can take you over there instead of me goin out of my way. He ignored what i said and asked me once again if i would take him . I told him Okay i will take you but my sis aint coming. I felt like whats the point of her coming along when she might as well drive there car an take them. He imediatly got very angry and said she was comming. thats where the conversaton ended, i didnt end up taking him. I just feel like there trying to take advantage of me when they have my old sis there who is capable of driving and who doesnt have a baby.SO, they only wanted me as taxi then. Ever since i lefty the house i matured and became responsible had a fulltime good job a car. My sis has never had this ,because she depends on my parents and chooses to be with a loser who cant provide for her. So. i dont feel like they should be mad at me. My sis and mom both have the same mindset, so right now there probably all pointing the finger at me for being a bad daughter like always ,cuz i dont let my slef get taken advantage of . If i tell my mom how i fell or sis they wont care cuz they dont understand nor want listen to what i got to say. Im very independed and dont rely on anybody to do me favors.they have always helped my sis more than me ,because they claim she lives there ,but thats Bs! I feel like im the one who gets punished for being the good daughter w/ the good life

• Answer:

  You sound just like me. I was thinking that after reading this that maybe your dad wants you and your sister to take him because he is sick and maybe he is thinking it would be a good time to spend time with just you and your sis. That maybe he misses you guys together and thought he could have this time with you two. He also might think that your sister is qualified or responsible should something go wrong on the ride. If he needs 24 hour care he must have got injured pretty bad. I would say that now that he is hurt maybe he is thinking that life is short and he wanted to see you. On the other hand. I have a child who dislikes the car and she is 4. I dread taking her anywhere. So I also know how you feel on that part. It is hard with lil ones and your family should understand that. I think your parents like the fact your sis is under there control and they wish you were too. Good for you for standing up for yourself. Maybe you could stop in and say hello to him.