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Putting him on child support make him not want to be together in the future?

  • My baby's father is always acting like he wants us to be a family. Right now we are not together. We are both trying to get ourselves together. He is currently not around like he should for his son because he says that he is getting some things in order and he promises he will make it better. He always uses words like "we and "our" in reference to the future. I always acts as if he knows we are going to be married. HOwever, some times I'm not sure because he is not who I want him to be as of right now, but I know that he can't be that man just yet. I filed for child support becuase he isn't doing much of anything. Do you think when he finds out I filed for child support, would he view me differently and consider not havinga future with me??? Just curious...

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    Yes this will defiantly not want him to be with you. Although you most likely have feelings for him because he is your "Baby Daddy", you just need to think of what is better for your baby. It sounds to me like he is pretty worthless and doesn't care about you guys so I would suggest that you just move on with your life and find somebody who loves you for you and will be there for your baby.

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Don't be naive......HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU. He is just pus*y footing around. Move on and fine someone else.

who cares the important part is that the kid is being taken care of, and if you had to file for child support because hewasnt helping on his own at all you probably wouldnt get married anyways because he didnt want to have to pay to take care of the kid..sounds like a deadbeat

If he wanted you to be together he would have been giving you money for the childs needs already. Since he has not then you really had no choice but to ask for child support.

Well...if he doesnt want to support his kids now, what makes you think he will in the future. If he wants to be a family he would be. He is messing you around, dont wait for him. If he wanted to be with you, then he would be.

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