**My Mom Makes Me Want To Die.?

u should get family counsling and if u need a friend here i am for you.! and dont do nothing STUPID

Look sweetheart - you aren't gonna change your Mother. She is already set in who and what she is. Killing yourself won't make anything better - in fact it would make it worse for your little brother and your sister. Your Mom is who she is and obviously she isn't gonna change. Pick a Mom among your friends parents and use her to talk too - to have those heart to hearts with. Many kids who have indifferent parents do this - most Mom's are willing to mentor other girls so check them out and find one you love "like a Mom"! Don't worry about the future - it will take care of itself- by the time you are done with college you will be ready for the world. Take charge of your own life and don't bother argueing with your Mom - it won't change a thing.

My mom had parents like this that actually has translated into her raising of me. Her mom actually put her in a foster care, then took her out because her mom was getting remarried and wanted to seem good. She then was constantly abused and had to work starting at the age of 8 for little to no wages at the family restaurant. Her mom, and then step dad, abused her mercilessly and said to the other children as a threat, "Do you want to end up like her?" From when she was working, she was forced to pay rent and for her own food, clothing, soap, etc. She also had to do almost all the chores of the house, if not all of them, and cook for all her younger siblings and parents. She would have 3-6 kids to feed every night. She also had to raise her younger brother from the time me was born, which was when she was about 12. She was kidnapped twice and almost killed once on 3 different incidents because her real father was a rapist, murderer, drug-dealer, kiddy porn maker, etc. and his clients wanted to get him back if he didn't stay with his side of the deal. She was also almost raped by her friend's brother and was beaten with a base-ball bat as she fought him off and ran. This broke for spine and if the disk in her spine slips, she would die instantly. She was later kicked out at 16 and then court ordered to stay until 18 with her mom and step-dad. On her 18th birthday, she was free and even though she had no money, she made it work. She has a at most 10th grade education and does very well. She married, was mentally abused by my dad because she wanted to keep me, while he didn't. He tried desperately to get rid of me. She then divorced and while she was fighting for child custody (Dad wanted me so that he could get rid of me) she put her 2 year old little daughter into hiding with my uncle. When she won the battle, she was forced to live back with her parents, who tried to hurt her through hurting me. Her step-dad, who I love and forgive, who died 3 weeks ago, hit me repeatedly one day so badly that I was hyperventilating on the floor, I was 3 or 4. My grandmother was too lazy to come and get me, but she would try to torture me by telling me how badly she was going to hit me when she could. She still calls me very colorful names to the point where I ask knew my name. She said yes, and then continued with b*tch, lard a**, and more colorful ones that I wont even type. My mom was tortured by this and constant was trying to keep me somewhere safe. She is now a single mom, but doing great, and is really happy. I was abused, my dad and his mom still commonly look at me like I am scum, and I suffer from anorexia that I am trying to recover from due to constantly being called fat by my family. My family, swears I will be pregnant, if I am not already, by the time I get out of high school. I have been called slut, whore, prostitute, and everything under the sun. Even by my mother. I am actually a huge believer in God and plan to not have sex until marriage, they don't believe me. Where I am getting a is, that there is always worse. Do not hurt yourself, and think in your mind, "It is only 2 years." And save up money now. The day I turned 10 (I am 14 now), my mom pretty much dropped me and I still have to make my own food, do my own clothes, and I too can do whatever I like because she doesn't care much. I understand the frustration. Stick with good friends and just deal with in. Starting from when I was 10, I was abused and I constantly though, "only 8 more years, only 7 more years.....". Now my mom and I have a semi-good relationship. Just try to be nice with your mother, and stay out of her way. Be at friends houses and stay late at school, that is what I do. Go to God, go to church. The one person you can always depend on is God, and he will always have a plan for you. Pray, and even if it gets worse, pray. There is a reason for everything. That is what I did, and he took me out of my depression and I am wonderfully happy, even through different circumstances. You will make it, do not hurt yourself on the way there please.

look kiddo this is hard time i no im not a girl but all of us went though this she did to u will see it will be ok in long run and .no im not sidding with her over u but u hve to rember to we are in hard times right now and things are on thin line so dont judge us to hard it will work out fine u got more then u no i hd no family when i grew up just foster homes and i would hve trade with u in a sec.if i was ur age i cried becuse i had no shoes then i saw the man who had no feet remb.there is folks with lot worse life and would tde with u any day of the week they need to make a tv show like that take teens who have the good life and let them live like i did as a kid then they wont be so crybaby.and thnk god for wht they hve.

first -- relax.... calm down...deep breath. It's not you. Your mom snapped on you...because she can. Not because she should have, or because of what you said. It happens. She sounds mega-stressed out too me. Try this: When your around your mom, but ultra nice. Like volunteer to do things you wouldn't normally do. Show her that you appreciate the things she does, and that you love her. Spend more time with your mom... get closer. Go on a field trip..just you and her. Makeup shopping, or treat her to a 'day at the spa' if you can manage it. Once you get her to open up, and let down her guard, then do the heart to heart. But don't compare to other moms. You and your mother are unique people. Don't be normal..cause...normal is boring. :) Everyone needs to vent sometimes, and with parents, that venting sometimes get's misdirected to open targets -- the kids. You just happen to be in the way when she was letting off steam and maybe your comment was the tipping point. You don't know..and you wont know until she's calm enough to talk. But you should apologies - regardless. A meaningful apology goes a long way into soothing stress.

That made you want to die? seriously? Must be your period time...that always makes situations a lot worse than they are! lol Did you ever think for a second that your mom has a REASON to not be social with other moms? maybe she has a social anxiety issue and it's hard for her to be around other people. Or maybe, she just doesn't like them. It's really not your place to judge. They are your friends, not hers. As for her idiotic outburst, that's exactly what it is. Similar to the ''I hate you mom *storms off and slams the door* statement. I think you both need to sit down and talk your issues out. NOTHING is going to become resolved if you two keep to yourselves and not discuss your issues.

hey im your age and i really think you should get into foster care or something, sounds like your in a really bad environment and need to get out before you get more and more depressed, your mum doesnt seem like a person who should have had children, very to herself and not very caring,,, please speak to someone about moving out doesnt sound like it will get better

It sounds to me that your mother might have a psychological problem, or it could be something else that cuases her to say that she hates you, I mean no offense in saying this but she could have been a rape victim and sees you as ...a mistake (sorry for saying that I really mean no offense). I am not an expert at this, I am only 17, but I have heard about other kids in my school whose mothers have been rape victims, some of their mothers hate them and some of their mothers love them. Try talking to your mother about how she makes you feel (and try not to shout or say something that could turn it into an argument) talk to her calmly and try to find out why she hates you. And please, please, please don't commit suicide it is not the answer to your problem, your mother may not show it but she probably loves you deep down inside. I hope this helps in some way.

I'm sorry but this seems fake.