What to talk about to my boyfriend instead of sex?

first off, good for you! second off, just talk to him like you would any other person...or like you didn't know that he hadn't had sex... If you can't get past that or just can't hold a conversation with him (early in the relationship this is understandable because you are still nervous and unsure) then how are you going to build a relationship in months to come? Just keep that in mind :)

If he starts making advances or the subject turns to sex follow these steps: 1) Stop 2) change the subject 3) Suggest a new and fun activity such as going on a walk to the park or making a picnic or going to a movie. There are things you can do to share mutual affection other than having sex such as hugging, kissing and hand holding and giving gifts. If he is still persistent you may want to tell him that at this point and time in your life you feel like your not ready for sex and if he's worth it he will understand and not pressure you into anything and if he doesn't then you need to reconsider being with him because there's a serious gap in values concerning the relationship.