I like flirting with my friend, how can I tell him he is going too far?
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I find my guy friend very attractive. We usually flirt at work. He does things like stand in my way or playfully poke my waist or hold me around the waist. His flirting has escalated and it really makes me uncomfortable. Twice when we had a conversation, the next thing I knew he grabbed my breasts and another thing he put his hands down my sweatpants. I am not going to lie, I did giggle because that was really uncomfortable. I usually playfully tell him to stop or try avoid him, i do like flirting but he is making me feel like an item he can just touch whenever.
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Answer:
Say hi to him and work away from him. That's also sexual harassment
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tell him that. no one wants to be touched like that if they dont feel the same way. "im your friend. i like you but not that way. maybe, as friends, we can eat a bowl of cereal." you could say that or "if you want these lumps you gotta put a ring on it"
Nothing ever justifies unwanted touches, but you're not helping yourself by flirting with him. And definitely tell him off and/or tell your supervisor if that happens again. How sick of that guy.
Next time he does something uncomfortable, you push him off (not like with huge force as if it was an aggressor, but just push him off with one hand) and tell him that he's going too far and you're feeling uncomfortable After that you can say something to ease the tension and go from there
Tell him that! Flirting with words isn't very harmful, but that's molestation!
report him to your manager and if that dosnt work and u keeep telling him to stop pepper spray him
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