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How can I feel better about my boyfriend and his former flings?

  • My boyfriend and I are 16 and have been dating for 3 months. The other day, he texted this girl that he was going to hook up with over the summer, but when we started dating he did not. He was with me when he texted her, and we talked about how it did not make me happy and how I felt jealous. This girl's gorgeous, and she's pretty much everything that I'm not. My boyfriend's a musician; this girl is in a band, goes to a performing arts school, and sings amazingly. He says he hates that she's 14, drinks, and isn't a virgin, but no matter what, I feel like she's better than me. That same night, we were being really honest and talking about how far we had gone in past relationships. He had known a girl for a year, meeting her on a cruise, and when they went on another cruise together over spring break, they hooked up one night. He fingered her, and she gave him head. He says he regrets it, but I can't get it out of my head. Now, he wants to go into NYC with her and some other kids from their cruise for a day in two weeks, and I'm jealous cause I feel like he should take me along. I know what's done is done, but I'm guess I'm upset that he didn't know his limits, and I never would have put myself into his position. I don't know how to feel better about it, and I really need to cause I've been upset every night for almost a week now.

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    I know how you feel. All I can tell you is to keep thinking that he did this before he met you. Just keep telling him how you feel and that you want to go to New York with him. Its a tough situation and you want to get over it, but it takes time to.

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Im sorry but u will never forget, However if he is worth it then you will soon reliase the happyness which you get from loving him far outways the stupid petty thoughts of jelousy . Why worry? ask him for reasurance whenever u worry . And your thoughts will soon be ocupied by the future and present with him not his petty regretable past. If we knew how we were going to turn out in the future we would of not done alot of things :) dont panic everyone has to go through it

I can definately understand your point of view and how much this past incident is bothering you and leaving you feeling jealous. Yet, at the same time you will learn how to move on.. with time and patience. I'm glad that you two were honest with each other at some point but at the same time I think that's important for him to know how this truly makes you feel. Stay open with him about it and see where things go. Best of luck, xo

have sex with him. they you 2 will be each others' first time, and no one can take that away from you.

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