Do you think a 13 YEAR OLD GIRL should have to share a BEDROOM with an 18 YEAR OLD BOY? read plz 10 points!?

oh my goodness. lol id go crazy. to be honest... there is nothing you can do. Ur parents cant go find a new apartment just cuz of that. They are probably extremely stressed out as it is. They should understand that your brothers a slob, they should scold him for it. As for the masterbating part... hhahaha... just tell them. they'll probably have a good laugh. but ull embarrass your brother.

wow! You are in a really tough spot with little support from your parents to solve the issue. No, with 13 you should not have to share your room with your older brother (regardless of his unsanitary and otherwise unpleasant behavior). For small kids it is OK, but your parents must have a clue that you cross that magical line already. When my brother kicked me out of our room I was 11 years old and with no other place to go, I ended up sleeping in the Bedroom with my mom, while my dad resorted to the living room couch for the next 8 years (and I too slept some nights in the hall way and bath tub). Friends of mine put two twin beds into their big hallway and slept there for years while each of their two kids had their own room. Another friend moved into the smallest room and left the large Master bedroom to the two kids to share as it was big enough to physically divide it with large furniture etc. into separate living quarters. Any acceptable solution will require your parents to understand and cooperate, if not sacrifice for their children, but they knew that before they had children. So I hope, they live up to their parental responsibilities. Good luck

I think your parents need to get a grip on your brother. Jeez, you shouldn't have to share a room with him.

no, that's totally inappropriate. tell a teacher or guidance counselor if you really want things to change.

ok well you're gonna have to share a room with him. but maybe you could have your side and him have his. discuss this with your parents. and maybe put up a shower curtain wall! maybe not a shower curtain. but something like that. but maybe it's a small room. i obviously don't know.. and then i would ask your parents for help. talk to your mom. when your in the car together or something. tell her (or your dad whichever one you get along with more) that you want to split up the room. and not have to be around his stinkyness! get an air freshener for YOUR side of the room and try to keep his **** on his side maybe get a stick or something. because i knowww i wouldn't NOT want to touch his nasty undies!

i do not think you are supposed to share a room at that age with a male sibling at all

Wow first of all I just want to tell you that you're really strong. I remember when I was 13 I really needed my space as well (still do but my hormones aren't as rushing :P ) so I would've probably kicked the hell out of my brother straight out of my room. Are you sure there isn't any other room to sleep in at all? When you think about it, you don't really need a room. Do your homework in the living room and sleep somewhere else. If not, is your brother the sensitive type? Would he get affected if you give him a nice speech about how he screwed his life or couldn't he care less? If he would care, you can make a speech and tell him once you get really pissed off at him. You never know it may straight him up About when he masturbates, seriously if you hear him in the night just be like "wth?!?!?!" If he couldn't care less that you saw him, then your brother is a serious asshole who won't ever change. If he's like "omg!" and hides away, then you know it's not hopeless. He still cares a minimum about something :P Finally, if your still stuck with him in your room, try to live with it. If he leaves all his stuff on the floor, once he's out you could take all his stuff and put it outside of the room, to teach him. You could also separate the room in half, part of it yours and his. If stuff smells, open the windows and use an air refreshener Good luck!

Since he is your bother, I guess it is ok. I mean, you should work something out so your not disturbing each other. Talk to your parents calmly about this because is isn't right that you have to deal with a really smelly room.

well to be honest you should just tell your parents because boys should not be in the same room as girls once they hit about 12 or something like that for girly reasons, but i really dont no what to actually say other than i hope everything turns out like you want it, Just say mum when i go to bed and . . . .(watever his name is) he M........... while i am in there and i feel uncomfortable about it. Have a word or just someething like that. Hope this does help