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How can I become friends with her? and become her bf after?

• K, so I'm 15 and there's a girl from swimming class that I'm acquainted with (we have a couple of short conversations per class) and I've known her for 3 weeks now (1 class per week). I would really like to ask her out and if things look good, get her to become my girlfriend. However, there are some reasons why I'm on here right now: - She is ALWAYS with her best friend every time that I see her (they're always talking together) - I've sent her a friend request on facebook, but she hasn't accepted yet. (I talked to her today during class regarding facebook and she says that she doesn't go on too often and that its okay for me to add her.) - I don't know if she caught my name yet (mostly because I don't think I've mentioned my name, possibly she might've heard it on the attendance list though, but I certainly know her name) Also, she seems to be quite friendly when I interact with her. During awkwardly silent moments in class, I'll usually look at her and when she looks at me, I give a small little smile and she always has that sweet smile on her face everytime we talk (although I'm pretty sure she's just friendly to everyone taht she meets and not just me in particular) Thanks Also, after how many "hang outs" should I go on before asking for a "go out"? well one problem that I have is that I don't have much opportunity to talk to her after class because my mom (who is very strict when it comes to my interaction with girls) is always outside waiting to pick me up after class, so the only way that I can get to know her outside of class is if we hang out, but i dunno if its too early to do so or not Also, I'm not even sure if she knows my name or not :P How can I tell her my name effectively? Like when I ask her to hang out for the first time, should it be at the mall (we have a huge mall about a half hour bus ride away from here) or movies? Also, what if she hasn't added me on FB yet? (she rarely goes on), how can I keep in contact with her? Would asking her for her email be creepy if I ask her it next week? BTW, I'm thinking of asking her to hang out next week. Is it too early? Like, there is nowhere else that i can have contact with her (for now, at least) outside of swimming class. What can I say (like gimme a dialogue) to generate a good conversation? 18 hours ago - 3 days left to answer. would this be good? First time hanging out with me and my friends: Smaller Mall Second Time: Huge Mall Third time: Date at a movie??? Also, how can I find out if she has a BF already or not? BQ: is it true that girls that tend to stick together generally don't have BFs?

• Answer:

  Be yourself. Ask her about herself , get to know her, dont ask her out right away. And when you know her enough, ask her to go to the mall first i think, that way it wont be awkward.