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How To Make An Ex Want You Back?

How do i make my ex regret that he lost a great thing? i dont want him back just so you know.?

  • ok this is long... i was with my ex for 6 months...he broke up with me bc he told me that he was going to medical school in poland...5 months later he contacts me and tells me that medical school didnt work out since he has to take 2 more science classes and how we should be friends...we started hanging out...in fact the last three times he kissed me and was sending me flirty text messages which confused the heck out of me. Lately, i noticed that hes been distancing himself from me....he emailed me and wrote: "Just want to let u know that ur def the right type of girl for me!! i dont wanna slowly be chilling with u which who knows one night we get plastered while being out at dinner, a bar or whatever, and maybe do something that will bring up emotions etc...but i dont want to ever hurt u again! i swear to God! i think ur the first girl I'm being completely selfless about in every aspect...even though it sucks on both ends cause id love to get back with u but at this point in my life it really isnt the appropriate time in my life to be in a relationship and its unfair to both of us bc before I even think of that i have to resolve some personal issues and decide if im going back to work or go away for school, which im leaning on going back to school very soon. It would be just wrong of me to take you out cause id love to get back together, but unless i fully resolve my inner turmoil it wont work for me in general with u or anyone else. Im sorry! i really am i dont wanna lead u on cause its not fair to either of us. If u hate me for it, I'll understand but I'd rather u hate me for this instead of hurting you (possibly)" what should i write back? i want something good...bc ive been the best girl ever to him. i want him to feel like crap...first he breaks up with me bc of medical school and now the truth is coming out bc he just isnt ready for a relationship...and i feel like he lead me on bc he kissed me after we broke up... sorry this is long...10 points for the best answer!

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    Just don't answer. He just wants your attention, and if you don't give it to him, that will be way more irritating to him than anything you could write back to him. Just ignore him and don't let this twit back into your life

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Look, it sounds like he's confused about what he wants right now, and he doesn't want to hurt you. I think it sounds like he already knows he lost a good thing. He needs to figure out what he wants to do, whether it be work or school, and you need to move on. Don't write him back, don't pick up if he calls, and don't answer any texts if he sends them to you. Just ignore him and move on.

He has sent you a royal line of Horse Pucky......your best response is to not respond in word (written or spoken) and make your response to this getting on with your life and finding a really great guy who appreciates you. Not saying anything to him will drive him nuts, it also says to him he is not worth a written or spoken response, and you moving on with your life shows him he had far less impact and importance upon your life than he thought...in other words his being such a special person to you is in his mind only....you easily moved on with your life proving to him that he was replaceable...no one likes to think they can be so easily replaced-get it? In other words "Oh, okay...whatever. I'll just find another BF, that's all".

It was just six months of dating without any promise of the future. I think you are over reacting and acting like a spoiled little immature brat to want to hurt him. My goodness, he has been and is being honest with you. What the hell more do you want. So what, he kissed you, big freaking deal. You should write him back and say "Thank you for your honesty". Because quite frankly, it sounds like you would throw yourself at him to be with him again and he recognizes that and wants to put on the breaks so you are not hurt because those are not his intentions. You and he are not a good match because you are still acting like you are in grade school while he has a college mentality.

Don't reply. Just leave it at that. If he feels anything for you, it will absolutely kill him that you haven't replied. Keep him guessing. Distract yourself with work, friends, school, or whatever. The ball's in your court right now and he's expecting to get it back. If he wants it badly enough and realizes how much he misses you, he'll fight for it.

He'll break your heart again. Don't do it! Eff him :)

I read the first line of that text he sent you and all I saw was "blah blah blah, I'm a flake who hasn't got the balls to tell you it's over so I'll spin this line of psycho babble and hope you get the message". If you reply to the text at all (which I don't think you should) I would just keep it very brief, something like "OK, bye" and leave it at that.

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