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Christmas Gift Ideas? I would appreciate female response!?

  • I don't know what kind of gift I should get to this girl that I like. She is a customer at the store which I work at. I want to get her a Tiffany's Blue Bracelet which will match her beautiful blue eyes. However, I don't want her to think that I want something in return (sex). I am not that type of guy, I want to treat her like a lady. Furthermore, I don't want to start a relationship because of certain reasons and I don't have time for a relationship. Therefore, I want to know which will be an appropriate gift a Tiffany's Blue Bracelet, Tiffany Blue Scarf, or just get her a Nordstrom gift card. Some have suggested all of them are inappropriate, but I am going to get her something and I want to know which is approriate. A little more detail on how well I know her. Ealier in the year, I got her a bottle of vodka which she was looking for and couldn't find it. Ever since, whenever she comes to the store she gets into my checkstand we flirt ask about life. She is nanny, she always comes into the store with the kids, so I am planning to get this christmas cookie coloring kits for the kids, so she won't feel I only did the gifts for her. So which one of the giftts should I give her A).Tiffany Bracelet, B). Tiffany Scarf, C). $200 Nordstrom Gift Card D). $100 AMC Movie Theater Gift Card (And tell her to go to the movies with her little nieces). E). $50 AMC Movie Theater Gift Card F). $25 Starbucks - (I don't want to look cheap though) G). Some other gift - give me some ideas. Also I have a feeling she drinks a little bit too much, because after I gave her the bottle she asked me of another alochol, but this time I did not get it for her. That is why I am planning on to give this book from author Jim Rogers which he gives a fatherly advice (the book is more like a love letter from the author to his daughters) about life and how to be successful. You think is that appropriate along with one of the gifts?

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    This is a girl who stands in your line at work. Not someone you have dated or plan to date or even know socially. Therefore any gift you give her is going to be inappropriate. If I were her, based on what you have said here, and you gave me one of these gifts, I would get really creeped out and you probably would never see me again in that store. Sorry to say, but you would be overstepping your social bounds with any sort of gift, from A to G, including the fatherly advise book. Please reconsider your decision. But, if you MUST give her something, skip the book all together and go for the Starbucks gift certificate.

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To be brutally honest, I think that jewellery (Tiffany's or not) is too personal for a relationship of this nature. You don't know her too well, and you don't really associate with her outside of work. I would go with the Tiffany Scarf. Everyone knows that Tiffany's is costly so you won't have to fear looking cheap. I think the gift cards with monetary value on it is not only impersonal, but might make her think you are a "big shot". Knowing that you spent $200.00 on her might make her feel uncomfortable. I also don't think that you shouldn't get the kids anything. If she is a nanny and the kids are not hers, its awkward for you to buy them something. Those kids will then bring those gifts home to their parents. There parents will want an explanation as to where they came from. This might actually get her in trouble - accepting gifts from strangers. Lastly, and not to be offencive, I do not like the idea of the book. She might think that you think she is a charity case. This might be a very easy way to offend her. Especially because you do not know her personal life that well, it would be wrong of you to assume that she does in fact have a problem. I don't think that you should go with the book at all. Hope this helps you come to a decision!

This might just be me, but unless you guys are friends( meaning more than just flirt at the register) than I wouldn't get her anything. It wouldn't seem appropriate, especially since you said yourself, you don't want a relationship and this might give her that idea, especially if you want to get hera Tiffany bracelet.

Family & Relationships > Singles & Dating And like someone told you the last couple times you've asked this: Talk to your boss. This might be against store policy and you would not have a job if you get in trouble for this gift.

Okay, so Tiffany's is very...attention grabbing. It would send out the wrong signal. I honestly think that option D) is the best, because it makes you seem considerate, the whole thing with her nieces and all, and thoughtful but not too engrossed in the whole "perfect gift" thing. Hope this helped.

Any gift is inappropriate in this situation. The girl is just an acquaintance as a result of being a customer at the store you work at. You don't want to start a relationship with her, but you want to give her an expensive gift. That's mixed messages if ever I saw them. She's either going to think you want a relationship, or you're harassing her. Don't give her a gift at all.

Instead of jewelry, Check out my website at: http://www.mythirtyone.com/betsyneville/ These bags and totes are very fashionable and a better gift for "just friends". Most of the items can be personalized which helps give it a special touch.

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