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What are some topics you can talk about on the phone?

Met a girl via arranged marriage procedure?

  • Hi, I am from india and recetly i met a girl via arranged marriage procedure, although we both havent commited yet, but we agreed that we gona talk for a while and if everything works out well , we will commit. Now whenever i go on talking her on phone, i dont get the topics to talk about. Even if i know what i will speak her, i forget while speaking to her. We chatted only couple of times on the phone. The first time when we talked we had a very good conversation. But after then we are finding it hard to find topics. I hope you understand my situation and can guide me how should i proceed in it. This is a serious question, please dont advice anything irrelevent. thanks

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    Well, I can understand that sometimes ppl can fall short of topics to talk. U can talk abt many things like: 1) ur families 2) ur education, ur colleges, schools and the funny things u did there 3) friend circles 4) hobbies 5) achievements in life 6) plans for future 7) things u like and dont 8) music, movies, books, sports 9) when u plan to have kids in life and how many 10) wat u expect in ur spouse and wat u wont like to see in ur spouse 11) how ur day went, wat interesting happened 12) ur job, ur boss, ur colleages 13) career plans etc etc... go with the flow... dont make it sound rehearsed or prepared

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First write down what you will discuss with her. Talk about thing you are concerned about. How many children you want. what you both want in a mate and out of marriage. Do not assume nothing because you do not know this person. I also think that if you click with a person conversation comes natural and flows freely. We can not guide you on how to proceed. you have to feel her. you have to just know and feel comfortable talking to her. I think you know what you need to do.

I have been through this.It is mainly cos we are talking to that person on a marriage perspective. And dont want to give the person any wrong idea or say something that might noit please them.I think you should relax and talk as if you are talking to a friend...If she meant for you then you will marry her eventually so talk like you talk any other girl and evry thing will fall in place.You are the guy so you need to relax first and so will she...all the best

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