Moving to get certified what if I want to stay?
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I'm moving states to get certified in my hopefully future career.I use to to in this area before but it wasn't by chance.I'm 18 and pretty much ready to just about leave my parents(secretly really hoping) The problem is my mother and I have gotten really close and I'm afraid if I go to this other state I'm not going to want to come back here.I've kind of been wasting a year away waiting for this and not very social I don't really fit in honestly I don't do drugs drink have a baby you get the picture of how things swing here with my age group...idk what do I do if I don't want to come back to Texas? I love it to death but I'm just at this point where there isn't much going to support me here and I'm just tired of barely seeing people...Idk I want to spead my wings I guess?I just have this fear of something happening when I leave it really scares me my parents are in their 50s and through their history or alcohol and drugs it makes me paranoid to go anywhere.My dad just got over cancer my mom works herself wayyyy too much.She is soo frail, she had an eating disorder pretty bad growing up until med 30s and I think is still a little when about it because she barely eats..Idk I think I am too protective I guess...idk my sister moved out to my aunts(things were going pretty bad my sis is 16 and needed someone who could handle her better so she is with my aunt for now)so I guess I feel obligated to stay because everyone else is so far away
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Answer:
Welcome to all the fun of being a grownup. Not exactly what you expected, is it? Get on with your life. You do not owe your parents your life. You need to have one of your own. They will solve their own problems. That is the adult job.
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You will branch out, you will grow, you will change, you will fail, you will succeed and it will be terrifying and awesome. Best of luck in this journey called life
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